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    Aaron go bragh is offline PUA in Training
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    Default need help with, inner game, mindsets and general self confidence

    so i believe my biggest and main problem with pick up and Game takes place within my head. I've just got out of a relationship so its been awhile since i've been up to practice but im having the same problems that ive always had. Which is that i tend to have social and approach annixeity at times, low self confidence and self esteem, slight depression and trouble with mindsets. There have been multiple times in my life where my confidence, inner game and great mindsets have been soaring and made me king of the world with large success in women and social interactions

    i know there might already be a thread concerning this but im just looking for either books to read, some sort of program, particular expert or mPUA, i just was hoping somebody could maybe point me in the right direction.

    I currently am reading style's "The Rules of the Game" as well as i have Gambler's "Natural Game" and both have sections about Inner games and mindset but im still having issues with the Inner game material and still have serious doubts about myself.

    I am pretty fond of the self hypnosis audio from Style thats available from his site and goes with his Stylelife challenge in "Rules of the Game" so possibly links to that sort of thing would be highly appreciated

    Thank you sincerely Aaron Go Bragh
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    Default Re: need help with, inner game, mindsets and general self confidence

    You would be even better checking into Tyler Durden's Real Social Dynamics. 20 hour lecture series that revolutionized my thinking and really changed my life. With the material covered in there, it would also answer all of your problems. Go ahead and check that out man!
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: need help with, inner game, mindsets and general self confidence

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    You would be even better checking into Tyler Durden's Real Social Dynamics. 20 hour lecture series that revolutionized my thinking and really changed my life. With the material covered in there, it would also answer all of your problems. Go ahead and check that out man!
    Can't agree more! I'm halfway through that lecture, yet my inner game has improved drastically. It's relieving when you find out that someone else had same issues with you and they know the way to solve them.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: need help with, inner game, mindsets and general self confidence

    Thanks guys i appreciate the advice, however the only experience i have to Tyler Durden's material is what ive been exposed to in "The Game", and i mean no disrespect to the man since i know neither him nor his material at all, but his methods just seemed a little ....cold? idk how to really describe my feelings towards him and his stuff accurately i suppose

    I am willing to check it out though and possibly give it a try after a little bit of research myself, in the mean time do you guys have any more suggestions on steps to take or programs to listen to boost inner game and self confidence and mindset?

    I think im also naturally starting to build all this up again a bit by bit each day on my own just through regular social interaction with people in general and not so much pick up and game
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    Default Re: need help with, inner game, mindsets and general self confidence

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaron go bragh View Post
    Thanks guys i appreciate the advice, however the only experience i have to Tyler Durden's material is what ive been exposed to in "The Game", and i mean no disrespect to the man since i know neither him nor his material at all, but his methods just seemed a little ....cold? idk how to really describe my feelings towards him and his stuff accurately i suppose

    I am willing to check it out though and possibly give it a try after a little bit of research myself, in the mean time do you guys have any more suggestions on steps to take or programs to listen to boost inner game and self confidence and mindset?

    I think im also naturally starting to build all this up again a bit by bit each day on my own just through regular social interaction with people in general and not so much pick up and game
    Agree on the bolded text. I've been there recently as also got out of a relationship a few months ago. Although I am still at the very bottom of building my new social circle and I had some luck with POF, but the thing that's helping me the most (I'm still a big AFC) is basically just enjoying life, do whatever the fark you want, you're free again. Talk to as many people as you can, whether at work, in a shop, on the streets in clubs doesn't matter. It does make a difference. Of course keep reading the forums, and some books which will give you some ideas what to do towards women, but the most important is getting back to the state you were before the relationship started, and for me being super social works best. If you want to speed up things then obviously sarging would also help a lot but if you feel like you're not ready yet then take it easy and do step by step.
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