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    PokerPlayer is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How to Interpret Phone Flakes

    I would say about 75% of the time I approach a girl I'm able to get her number (the number is almost always real too) but I would say about 80 to 90% of the time they don't answer when I call or text and never return my message. I'm not a pushy person and I never beg, badger, or in any way bully a girl for her number so that doesn't explain things. If she says no I'm always nice about it and never ask again. I've tried calling and texting first. Waiting a day or a few days and doesn't seem to make a difference.

    Anyways I always used to assume the girl was never interested to begin with and was simply too rude or lazy to say "no" or make up an excuse but somewhere in Mystery's book he says something like this can happen if the girl is attracted but you don't build enough rapport and she changes her mind afterwards.

    So my question is does this happen to a lot of other guys and is it more likely they're changing their minds or were never interested to begin with?

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    Default Re: How to Interpret Phone Flakes

    This happens to me about half the time, In my experience I've k closed the girl and even have them offer their number to me many times and they would still flake out. But as you said it could be not building enough rapport or that you are "solving your self" to the girl, I've found it's good to leave some things to their imagination, fill in the blanks on their own. Also I never think of it as "getting her number" most of the time I say something like "we should keep in touch" they usually reply by sugesting that you take her number if you've built enough rapport

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    Default Re: How to Interpret Phone Flakes

    Interesting that they flake after a kiss close. I usually don't go for/get a kiss close but then I just started looking into this stuff.

    I don't get woman's logic. If they feel they don't know you well enough then it seems like talking on the phone is a way to resolve that. After all we all start out as strangers but I guess I'm preaching to the quire here. Thanks for the input.


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