Wingman-ing gone wrong
I was out yesterday with a friend, and he met this nice chick and was doing kind of fine with her. I'm usually the alpha of the group and know everyone there, but I figured "hey, let's be a nice guy and get him with the girl".
So I kept making him seem like the best and awesomest guy in the world, getting them on dates, giving him stuff to say when he got stale, BUT.
The more it went on, the more she was flirting with me. Eyefucking like crazy, footsie and stuff.
1 - What the hell do you do when the target is hitting on the wingman?
2 - I've noticed that when you're the alpha, trying to DHV your beta/AFC friend ("he has the best apartment ever!" "He is the best guy you've ever met!") can have the opposite effect and gets YOU even more DHV. Is that a thing?
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.