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Thread: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

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    Default Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    So I'm really new to this PUA thing but ever since I found out about the community and read the game, and saw all it can do for me, I decided to give it my 100%. To make a long story short, today as I was coming from work I got my daughter from the babysitter and she said she wanted some dipped cone ice cream from MCDonald.
    So I pulled up and entered the store to find a HB7 sitting with her daughter also, we made eye contact and I waited in line to place my order.
    As I was standing there I started to think about what routine I could come up with but I went blank, but I really wanted to approach so I was like fark it I'm going in with direct game.
    After my daughter got her ice cream I immediately turned around and went straight to her table, and made eye contact:

    Me: hey check this out, you know the only person I noticed when I walked in here? *still eye contact*
    Hb: oh really!?! *smile*
    Me: and I really can't walk out of here without your number* still eye contact*
    Hb: humm... *looked down by still smiling*
    Me: *hold her hand*
    Hb: wait, what's your name?
    Me: (gave her my name), what's your name?
    Hb: (game me her name),* and I noticed that from there here pupils were very dilated*
    Me: *leaning forward* and asked her in the ear, "how many piercings do you have?" (because I've noticed she had piercings)
    Hb: *smiling* 8
    Me: *evil smile on my face* I only see 3
    Hb: what's your number
    Me: xxxxxx, what's yours?
    Me: *leaning back forward* kiss close on the cheek, really close to the mouth*
    Hb: *looked stunned, pupils still dilated*
    Me: I'll call you later, *smile*

    Please, the experts help me. I need you to analyze my approach and give me reviews and advice on this approach. And also, maybe advice on what's next, and how to keep this mysterious and unpredictable ways, and advice on how to keep this going.

    Nikee --JUST DO IT --

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    Default Re: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    You did great man. That's awesome.

    With direct approach there is no middle ground. It either works or it doesn't. Higher risk but higher rewards too as you found out.

    Keep it up. Give us an update after d1.

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    Default Re: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    Well that was correct opener by far... thats a great response! Give her a call a few days later and set up a date, though since she has a kid I would be careful before investing much in case of a husband (unless you dont care lol). If you want to keep the "unpredictable" image instead of dinner take her a cool date (im a big fan of hiking, outdoor sex is great )

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    Default Re: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    Quote Originally Posted by Sleath5 View Post
    Well that was correct opener by far... thats a great response! Give her a call a few days later and set up a date, though since she has a kid I would be careful before investing much in case of a husband (unless you dont care lol). If you want to keep the "unpredictable" image instead of dinner take her a cool date (im a big fan of hiking, outdoor sex is great )
    I am a fan of hiking and outdoor sex too.

    Then I looked up to see where you are from. Vancouver.....

    For those who have never been to this city we have some amazing mountains, and hills that surround the city on one side and the water surrounds the city on another side. Great beaches, lots of places to hike and bike.

    Take a girl hiking or to the beach with a chilled bottle of wine in the backpack and some munchies you have a cheap, effective date that leads to a f-close. Oh, the beautiful sunsets are free.

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    Default Re: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    Thanks to y'all dave xxx and Sleath5 for your input and I feel like i owe you two this follow up:
    So after I number close that hb at McDonalds that thursday, she texted me first on Saturday saying "hi", which I didnt respond, trying to play busy. Early the next day, she texted me again sayin "happy fathers day" and this is how the convo developed:

    Me: Hey there Chica!!! And thanks for the thought. 8:58pm
    Hb: Hey! You're welcome 9:00pm
    Me:You sound traditional, even a bit orthodox, yet your piercings tell another story!! Are you a bad girl repenting, or a good girl gone bad? 10:33pm
    Hb: LOL you're too funny... I am many things, smart, funny, outgoing, nonconformist, a mother, etc... What are you? 10:38pm
    Me: I'm a magician ( planning anticipation to then display some NLP or ESP next time we meet). 11:04am
    Me: *so I went ahead and plan something on the spot* lol nonconformist huh!?! curiosity make me wanna hear more about that!! lets get together for coffee tomorrow. 11.05am
    Hb: I'm out of town for work for 1-2 weeks :-/ 10.46pm
    Me: No big deal chica, no big deal :-) 11.46 pm

    so a that point I felt like I was losing her interest, and she was kinda flaking, so I had to do something to get back on the game, so I used an opener from one new York (sorry I forgot his name, but credit given to him nevertheless), so the next day this is how it went down:

    Me: hey, sassy pants lol, I need a woman opinion on something quick!!! 2.24pm
    Hb: what's that?? 2.26pm
    Me: *opener from NYC pua* what is the difference between muffins and cupcakes :-/ 2.31pm
    Hb: Aw... poor thing!!! Muffins are for breakfast, and some have fruits mixed in, like blueberry... Cupcakes are for dessert and have frosting on top :-) 2.33pm *see how she tried to lower my values here!! little she knew the neg was coming her way ahahah*
    Me: good job, I give you a Oscar for that!!! You pass the test!!! Now I know I can trust you. Your opinion is needed on an ongoing argument my friend Lola is having with her boyfriend... 2.39pm
    Hb: ok, LOL, so whats going on then?2.40pm
    Me: would you date a guy who was still friens with his ex-gf? (not fooling around or anything, just platonic friends) 2.48pm
    Hb: blah blah blah... 2.50pm
    Me: hmm cool, you sound really mature, guess never judge a book by its cover!!! Anyways, this is actually a two part question. 3.03pm
    Hb: LOL ok what is part 2? and thanks for the compliment. * don't realize she just got neg lol, or she may be in denial* 3.04pm
    Me: Now imagine dating this guy who was still friend with his ex, and you were going to move in with him, but he had a drawer with thongs and old pics of his ex gf? not naughty pics or anything just regular pics and some letters they been sending to each other. 3.13pm
    Hb: blah blah blah... 3.24pm
    Me: Holy sh!t!!! I didn't know my new bbf was an experienced love doctor, you definitely gotta coach Lola. :-). so doctor "Drew" lol, if I were to ask you what is most important to you in a relationship, what would you say? 3.49pm *trying to get her "mean values"*
    Hb: Lol you're so funny!! I think the most important part of a relationship is compatibility on all levels. 3.56 pm *got it!!*
    Me: ok. And what feeling/feelings do you experience when you're with a compatible guy? 5.05 pm *now trying to get her "end values"*
    Hb: Nervous, giggly, smile a lot, blush, butterflies... a lot of different things... Why?? 6.43pm *ahahha now that I have both values I was looking for, its time to eject!!*
    Me: you know what, you making me thirsty with all your questions!! I'm going to go make myself a protein shake, and hit the gym. Talk to you later 8.36pm
    Hb: OMG... LOL ok. 9.30pm

    Dave xxx, Sleath5, somebody, any other expert please review my pattern and routines and tell me if my steps and escalation are good, conform and doesn't convey any unwanted values. thanks to all.

    Nikee --JUST DO IT--

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    Default Re: Field report- we found love in the strangest places

    You got what you wanted and ejected at the right spot, your on the right track. One thing you want to be careful of, is your texting with all these exclamation marks and jokes that worked beautifully, but now she expects most of your replies are going to be energetic like that.

    This is how she is going to calibrate off you, so if you have to be careful about putting off the wrong emotion unintentionally.

    I would occasionally text her over the next few weeks every 3? days to keep interest, it doesnt have to be a full blown heart to heart but enough to keep her interest up.

    In about a week ask how she's enjoying her trip and if she says oh I'm back then you can say: "Perfect, I cant wait to hear about it over that coffee you owe me! Meet me at x place at 7:34 pm"

    Make sure before you pop that question that she's still interested though. Ask on a high, not a low, then end it after she says yes.


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