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    Wink Need help with taking action and approach anxiety

    Hi Guys I could really need some help on how to take action and go out and pick up chicks, instead of sitting home and playing games by the tv. If you're at a mall, how can you make yourself approach a girl and still be calm? Is it important to have a good state? Write your tips in the comments If you have some good tips on approach anxiety, write them aswell.

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    Default Re: Need help with taking action and approach anxiety

    I have and more than likely will always have anxiety about approaching a woman. One of the biggest things I do when solo sarging is make them come to me.. How you ask? I pick a spot at the bar next to someone and adjust my stool so that people standing who want a drink come to the gap Ive created. The thing with this is not to look desperate or a loser. I never sit on my phone checking facebook or texting. Any target that I may want to try on will come to me at least once in the night. I will find a reason to neg them and go from there. If I get a good vibe I will try to escalate.

    If my target is in a set, I do not directly start my game on the one I want. I will use facial expressions to get a reaction out of her. While I use kino on her friend. I make her feel jealous and that I am not interested while I give her very subtle hints that I am. This tactic has worked for me quite often. It actually worked last night.

    I used this setup on 3 very beautiful and much younger women when they came to order shots. One sipped her shot and I used this to neg the hell out of her. She even told me that if I bought her one she would promise not to sip it. I neg'd her again saying I couldnt let myself be seen taking a shot with someone that sips it. She started playfully flirting with me and I played back, however I was making eye contact with her friend (the target) the whole time. I k-closed and she asked me to come see her at work tonight (a bar.) and when she gets off we will go have a few drinks. Being as I have AA, like yourself. This would of been a lot harder to do with a cold approach. Hell I even N-closed on the bartender in front of them. "I need another beer, my tab and your number." I said it very confidently and it worked. Just don't act like that AFC that gets rejected and bounces woman to woman all night. Women will see that.

    You can always hit on your friends. I have a few female friends that I would never try to f-close. However, If it is a slow night I will use that night to practice on them. My goal is to see how much I can make them lap and if I can get them to comply to stuff they would normally not do for me but for a guy they are going for.

    These are what I do. I am sure there are others who will argue with me, however everyone is different.


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