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    Default Dance floor question

    Hi there
    Question about dance floor game.
    I am talking about situation when 2 girls starts dancing beside your group, and obviously wants to be approached, how do they want it done?
    I normally just present my hand, so they either have to grab it or reject, but I'm not sure girls seem to like this approach. What would be the best way to approach a girl in this situation?
    Also i am wondering what kind of dancing do girls 19-22 like to do on the dance-floor? I see loads of boys doing this normal rave/party dance on the floor, then when they grab a girl they start to dance swing, which in my opinion don't fit on the dance-floor. Personally i often go with like standing into them behind or front and just "grind". But many girls seem to don't enjoy this longer than 10-20 seconds then they leave, can also be because this is about the time i start to feel up their ass.

    In advance, thanks for answers

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    Default Re: Dance floor question

    You can use a soundbite. Assuming dance floor would be too loud, you need to get closer to them to make your voice get through. A hand gesture may be a bit cheesy because it's a club environment, not a tango bar.

    Just putting your hand out there to be grabbed and getting closer with your whole body to whisper into their ear have many differences. By just presenting your hand and holding back your body, you are limiting kino at the approach. You suggest that you are scared/intimidated of those girls. You give power to them. However, if you approach with your whole body, getting closer, whispering to their ear, putting your hand on their shoulder or arm while whispering, establish kino instantly, which shows that you are a dominant male who aren't afraid to make physical contact with strangers.

    So while the 2 girls standing next to each other, make sure you smile while approaching, get closer and whisper to both of them (get in between the girls so both of them can hear you): "Wanna dance?"

    The key to soundbites is, you can't use long sentences because half of the sentence might get lost along the way, so don't think too much on what you're gonna say. Even a "Hey!" then grabbing their hand to dance should suffice. Girls are on the dance floor to dance, to have fun, not to talk. So you should get into dancing quickly after a soundbite. If you feel like they want to get to know you better through talking, simply isolate them from dance floor to a quieter area.

    About the dancing part, I highly suggest BatMan's guide:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...-debunked.html

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    Default Re: Dance floor question

    Dude, I think the presenting your hand thing is a good start, I know I use this and it works quite well but what you do leading up to it is crucial.

    The golden rule is dancefloor=fun. You have to look like you're having a good time (which you should be anyway) and not just hanging out there like a blunt fishing hook trying catch any unlucky fish that chances a nibble. When I'm dancing, I don't do that cliche 'dude' dance; like an alpha male sitting at a table, you have to assume more space than just what your body fills. Be a presence on the dancefloor, not just an obstacle. I just dance in a way that makes me feel happy and makes me smile. Don't take yourself too serious, but obviously within reason.

    The first thing to do is get a bit of eye contact and a smile. I watched a sick video that said after you establish eye contact, maybe imitate her dancing a little, this might come off as a funny neg towards to girl but the aim is to make her laugh. Now you just walk closer and look like you're going to say something but then pull back a bit, this'll throw them off a bit and hopefully make her keep laughing. Then go back in and present the hands. If she takes them, do the whole push and pull dance move. If she rejects, just step backwards again and try the previous few steps over again.

    Once you have her hands for a while, pull her in a bit closer by guiding one of her hands behind your back, leading you into a waltz position with her. Doing the whole waltz thing I find is awesome, especially if it's a danceclub with music that totally doesn't suit (which is most places). The key is get them comfortable with dancing with you and make sure they keep smiling because remember... dancefloor=fun.

    I just realised that this was in the 'ask an expert' forum. I'm not an expert in all things PUA but this totally works for me. Please feel free to comment and critique this.

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    Default Re: Dance floor question

    Quote Originally Posted by Sigmund View Post
    The first thing to do is get a bit of eye contact and a smile. I watched a sick video that said after you establish eye contact, maybe imitate her dancing a little, this might come off as a funny neg towards to girl but the aim is to make her laugh. Now you just walk closer and look like you're going to say something but then pull back a bit, this'll throw them off a bit and hopefully make her keep laughing. Then go back in and present the hands. If she takes them, do the whole push and pull dance move. If she rejects, just step backwards again and try the previous few steps over again.
    Interesting, I like that approach, gonna try it the first time I go out dancing.
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    Default Re: Dance floor question

    She's there to dance, right? And so are you?

    So dance with her. Take her hand and farking twirl her. Take it one step further. Put your hand in the small of her back and dip her. Like so: youtu.be/nMG88hZUHG8

    I'm not of the opinion that dance game needs to be broken down and analyzed. For me, dancing is where I switch my mind off and let the body take over. You're both on the dance floor to cut loose and have fun. Be that dude she goes home and thinks about in the shower.

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    Default Re: Dance floor question

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post

    About the dancing part, I highly suggest BatMan's guide:
    Wow this guide is good, i could easy win over loads of girls with these moves, i actually think it even would work on my female friends which are so uptight.
    One question though, how is it with this dance moves and rhythm, how are you supposed to follow it, it seems kinda wrong to do these moves while jumping up and down if you get my point?

    Any good guides on regular push pull?


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