How do I overcome my fear and improve my success with 7's and above? I have had tremendous success seducing mediocre women (4's, 5's, 6's). I've bedded over 150 women many of whom were inappropriate for me in terms of appearance, age, interests, intellect, social circles, etc. My friends look at some of the women I've been with and simply ask, "Why???" I think the answer is that I'm just plain desperate. I fail repeatedly when attempting to date 7's, 8's, 9's and I don't even attempt to go near the 10's. I just can't get them hooked and they ALWAYS seem to have the upper hand. Im a good looking guy. Probably around a 7 or 8 from a female perspective. I just can't overcome my feeling of intimidation and unworthiness. How can I change this?