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    Default How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    How do I overcome my fear and improve my success with 7's and above? I have had tremendous success seducing mediocre women (4's, 5's, 6's). I've bedded over 150 women many of whom were inappropriate for me in terms of appearance, age, interests, intellect, social circles, etc. My friends look at some of the women I've been with and simply ask, "Why???" I think the answer is that I'm just plain desperate. I fail repeatedly when attempting to date 7's, 8's, 9's and I don't even attempt to go near the 10's. I just can't get them hooked and they ALWAYS seem to have the upper hand. Im a good looking guy. Probably around a 7 or 8 from a female perspective. I just can't overcome my feeling of intimidation and unworthiness. How can I change this?

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    It's probably because you've out your mind in the state that the 4s,5s, and 6s are the only women you can get( it's like a horrible habit and lower your standard)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    It's an inner game issue. The fact that you've plowed through 150+ women but not the ones you actually want shows that you have low self confidence.

    You need to work on your inner game so you start thinking that you are the prize not the other way round.

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    I think you guys are absolutely right. Thank you. I was already starting to research inner game stuff. So far the only ones I know that teach that kind of stuff are David Deangelo and Carlos Xuma. Any recommendations on any others Im missing or if I should spend the extra for David D or use Carlos' stuff?

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    Mmm I never actually spent any money on developing my inner game. I remember reading "The Rules to the Game" and after that I just tried changing my attitude every day until the new persona stuck. It was great.

    It's hard to explain but changing your inner game does take a lot of time.

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Mmm I never actually spent any money on developing my inner game. I remember reading "The Rules to the Game" and after that I just tried changing my attitude every day until the new persona stuck. It was great.

    It's hard to explain but changing your inner game does take a lot of time.
    21 days or more- to be more exact. 30 days for sure, change your mentality and your outcome will change

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    I'm actually trying to figure this out myself,I'm trying to understand this feeling of anxiety when meeting a 10,and from what I can gather is I get pressured by the fact that they get all the attention,they have a huge choice of men,they're hard to impress,so people tend to avoid doing a regular routine or do something that might work on the 6s.

    I know it's inner game,yet it's difficult to overcome,but I'm trying to change completely,so whenever i face that anxiety,I'm just forcing myself to approach and strike a conversation.Most of the time,I get surprised how easy it is to talk to them,sometimes even easier,because they're not afraid to talk - have a conversation(if you genuinely interested them,even if not attracted yet) and are less likely to be shy.

    Sometimes though,I get stunned,I work as a salesman and last week,this super gorgeous 10 entered the shop,perfect in every way,if i could rate her,from 1 to 10,I'd give her a 100(I do understand that this way of thinking is what probably fails me).
    And i freaking choked....couldn't get myself to talk to her,and that's it - she was gone.
    I know that it's inner game,but sometimes I can't help it.I don't know where it comes from.

    90% of the time,I do talk to them at the least though.

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    Just start giving yourself a standard. That's what I did and now I'm at 8, 9, an sometimes hb 10
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How to Attract & Seduce 7's-10's???

    you get these girls because you are comfortable with them which gives you a degree of control in your mind.when working with the others stick with them whilst focusing on your material to get you results.at first you may feel uncomfortable but soon..

    You are the prize because you can create attraction and that may be valuable to any woman regardless of her looks.she dresses up and primps looking for guys.why can't it be you.it can


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