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    Default Hook up with a girl that you know at a party

    I need some advice on how to hook up with this girl that I know. We have known each other for a while and she's always smiling and making eye contact with me whenever she sees me. There's this party coming up soon and it's a chance to finally hook up with her. The problem is that her friends and my friends at this party know each other as most of us work at the same place.
    Last time when i was at a party with her work friends and my work friends,she only said hello to me and that's about it. She was pretty much around her friends the entire night. Only two of my friends know that I like her but all the others have no idea that I do.

    Earlier about a month ago when I was with another group of friends and she was with her college friends at a nightclub(whom don't know each other at all), I had a chat with her, left her alone for a while and then later i was walking out of the club alone with her, touching her with my arm around her but did not kiss her unfortunately.

    So what's the best way to finally get with her at this party as people that know each other are around us?

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    Default Re: Hook up with a girl that you know at a party

    If you focus solely on this one girl at the party you will blow your chances with her. You will come across as an AFC. Already telling two of her friends that you like her is an AFC thing to do. What are the chances that they haven't told this girl about your desires?

    Your best bet is to go the party, have a great time, interact with EVERYONE at the party. That's what an alpha would do. Move from one group to another group within the party. Get to know ALL of the friends this girl has at the party.

    Pay more attention to her friends and less attention her. Use indirect opinion openers with her group. Get them talking. This way you don't come across as needy or AFC to her.

    Then later on in the night engage her in a conversation and try some kino. Calibrate to see how she is reacting to the kino. If it's going well then continue. If she seems cold then back off, go to another group and continue to have fun at the party. Then later on engage her in some conversation, kino , calibrate and go from there.

    When you are at the party and you don't know what to do just think to yourself, "What would be an AFC do right now?" Then do the exact opposite of that action.

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    Default Re: Hook up with a girl that you know at a party

    I know my friends haven't told her that I'm in to her
    If the kino is going well and I get her alone I should definitely kiss her
    to close the deal right?


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