Re: I dont get her.. Should I run? lol
Dude never let jazz like this cramp your style. You are the prize and she is the one being qualified not you. You gave her all the power though which caused her to push you away. You started acting like her male girlfriend begging her to like you, begging her to go out with you when clearly she was already doing that but you were trying to make it more serious than that. She turned around and pinned the nail on the head. You got friendzoned which pretty much means you are now emasculated and should avoid her at all costs just next her.
She will play head games from here on out. Don't go there. You blew it and there is no recovery I have found for the friendzone. Her bringing up a BF is a different story but her rejecting you for being a bit too forward kills all the momentum you had. Everytime I see this happen it's always the same. Guy likes girl. Guy spends time with girl. Guy gets serious too soon and tells girl he is ready to invest. Girl backs away and puts on the airs. Girl dismisses guy as a "friend" that is the worst form of rejection since how can you battle being just a "friend"? That's worse than her telling you she has a BF since at least she is not saying she doesn't like you. But yes she is saying she doesn't like you. Never try to put a girl on the spot like that.
"Hang out, hookup, and have fun" - Coach Corey Wayne. That's some of the best advice I can give you. But the real story? She was having fun and so were you and you broke out the relationship side of things far too soon. You tried to tie her up as your girlfriend and the rule in playing the Dating Game is to NEVER make things exlusive with a girl always let them chase you and let them make things exclusive with you. Even assuming is better than "asking" you strait asked her not just out but to commit and generally when given the option most women will continue to do this. They have done it to me everytime I wrote them poems, love letters, etc. You need to remove the emotions from it and view it as hooking up with them and keeping the emotions removed until she invests. When she invests so can you. But you invested when she was not and it scared her away. Some girls aren't ready to jump right in to a relationship like that in fact I rarely meet women like that. When I play hard to get though it proves to be increasingly more and more effective. Don't let your feelings come to light until she asks. Play around with it. "When she is chasing you she won't reject you" -Coach Corey Wayne
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.