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Thread: 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

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    Default 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

    So last summer I was down the shore by myself and worked on my game TREMENDOUSLY! I've always been a pretty social guy but since I went back to college to finish my last year, I feel like I lost a pretty big part of my game that I had last summer. The reason for this is because I never really got the chance to meet knew people while at school because I basically knew everyone already and was pretty popular.

    I'm really worried that now that I'm back at the shore alone, I lost my confidence and skills that I worked so hard for last summer. Any tips to get back into the swing of things in full force?

    Thanks in advance guys and I'll be a regular on here for good now!
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    Default Re: 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

    It will come back to you pretty quickly.

    I had excellent game in my late teens and early twenties. Got married, it lasted 10 years and now I am divorced. My game came back to me within 30 days because I worked hard it. I am great at night game and I am now working on my day game.

    Every week I try to add 1 new thing to my game. I lurked on this site before I signed up. This site has helped me quite a bit and I feel like I owe it to help others just like others have helped me.

    Learning the game also helps in other parts of your life and learning the game is an ongoing process.

    We can ALL continue to learn more no matter if we are starting out, average , good or great at the game. Even the very best need to practice to stay sharp.

    You will get your game back.

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    Default Re: 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

    Your best bet is to sit and draw a flow chart for yourself. e.g. Approach -> Deliver Complinent -> Target responded? yes --> do A, no --> Do B. Think of every condition that may happen and think what would you say or do in that condition. Then approach yourself in the mirror then times. This will give you a lot of confidence and preparation for the game. Then go out and approach until you feel comfortable with it.

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    Default Re: 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

    I have found that the best way to get back into game is to start reading into some pua books, and reflect on past success, think about how you got girls in the past, what did you say?, what kinds of things did you do? how did things turn out when you did those approaches?, how did it feel?

    once you've reflected for a few days, get out and do some sets just like what you had done in the past, then go home and reflect more on how those sets went.

    get into a cycle of success and reflection, you go out, get results, think about what you did and how you could do better, then go out again and repeat the process. also, don't be afraid to take notes on how you did using various methods and tactics, figure out what works best for you and stick with it

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    Default Re: 1 year out of the game...how to get back into it

    Reading some of your old books would bring back the excitement and confidence from when you first started learning game. But ultimately you still got to put in the work. Go back to absolute basics:

    TALK to people. Anyone and everyone. Everyone has a story to tell and people love to talk about themselves. So become genuinely interested in the story they have to tell. With no expectations other than having fun and enjoying meeting new people. This will get you back into your social groove and you'll have more confidence when you're ready to game.

    Don't start off with the mindset of gaming women. You'll miss opportunities to meet some interesting people and who may have friends they would introduce you to down the road. Focus on making new friends and being social. Gaming girls should come second.
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