Re: Hitting a brick wall when talking to boring girl
This is a bit of a double edge sword I've noticed...
As PUA's we recognize the importance of being unique and different from the countless other men that approach and game her. So we exercise our unique clever conversations to make ourselves noticeable to her. But I can't help but feel that this is coming from the same frame that every other AFC has on their mind...
That we have to impress her to keep her attention, rather than her impress us.
Now this is just my personal opinion and is definitely up for debate. I'm not saying that I don't like be clever in order to make myself unique in her eyes, but I'm always going with the flow and let the dynamic shift here and there. I feel that if I am constantly trying to be clever with her that not only am I not giving her the breathing room to express herself in conversation, but that I eventually become a dancing monkey who constantly has to work to keep her attention.
I've gotten some great responses from women by only saying "Wow" "Lol" or "Yep" all at the right moment.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."