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    scott-tay1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Cute girl at the gym need help with

    Cute girl at the gym need help with, she is a confident girl and I work at reception so have to say hello and goodbye to everyone and of course I speak to her for a while but on the way out or on the entry how do I ask her or generate a conversation on asking her to come out with me this weekend? Anything would help guys

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    Default Re: Cute girl at the gym need help with

    Are you taking a direct or in-direct approach...?

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    Default Re: Cute girl at the gym need help with

    Either man ? I'm quite confident normally but stuck on what to say?

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    Default Re: Cute girl at the gym need help with

    In a situation like this be careful not get into the friend zone. I would use an indirect approach as too much time has already passed by to be direct with her.

    Try to build rapport with her every chance you get at the gym without looking needy. Use lots of push pull. Pull one day and push her away the next.

    Ask her what she did over the weekend. It will give you insight into how she spends her free time.

    Ask her what her gym routine is? How often does she change it up? If she comes in wearing bright clothes you could joke that she could have called to warn you to wear your sunglasses inside the gym.

    Basically it can be anything you notice about her and then branch the conversation based on her replies. Just don't be firing one question after another like a job interview.

    After you find out how she likes to spend her weekend. Let's say she went dancing at Club XYZ. A couple of weeks later don't ask her, TELL her that next weekend you and some friends are going to Club XYZ and that she should come along.

    If she shows up then you are set. If she makes an excuse or cancels out then you and your friends still go out to the club.

    While you are at the club make sure you take LOTS of pics. You want to be in the pics surrounded by your friends, some pics of girls hugging you, pics of you and the waitresses who served you.

    Then when she comes into the gym, tell her she missed out on a wild and crazy night. Tell a couple of DHV stories about the night and pull out your phone to show her the pics.

    Her seeing you surrounded by others in the pics is social proof. You will come across as the FUN, confident guy. Next time she and her friends go out , she will most likely invite you along.

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    Default Re: Cute girl at the gym need help with

    you could neg her. like a backhanded compliment. to get her attention and then ask her opinion on anything from weather to animals to whatever. But be careful, dont come on too strong, because people go to the gym to work out, lose themselves, relieve stress. They dont need/want a desperate guy stalking them at there safe haven. Be really friendly, make jokes, if you can, introduce kino. assume alpha male status when you are with her. Like its your gym, and she is a guest, and you decide what she is allowed to do. work on building a rapsheet. oh, and make it seem like you are the goal, and like she is flirting with you. call her out on it.
    I dont mean to sound D1ck1sh... but similar thing happen to me.

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    Default Re: Cute girl at the gym need help with

    That's awesome guys thanks heaps ) that's exactly what happened I told her she had to come out on the weekend cause I'm going clubbing in the city and she should come! But she couldn't make it but last night went out took heaps of pictures and now I'm going to rub it in when I see her hopefully that will make her more inclined to come along next time.
    Any ideas that could help me?


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