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    Default Copy and paste blocked on POF

    Hey guys ,
    need a little help. I have a basic template for the first email. I change a few things to make it custom to their profile but other sentences are exactly the same. I sent 4 emails to women yesterday but only 1 shows in the sent email folder. I have heard that sometimes you have to send the same email several times before it gets to the sender and shows in your sent folder.

    not sure if it went through or if it was filter or blocked by the system. any one else having experiences of sent messages not showing up in sent folder ? i received no message it was blocked.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    You may only send 4 copy and pasted messages a day now because the owner of the site is getting all pissy that it's being used or hooking-up and not finding true love or some shit.

    I normally just re-type my template rather than copying if I'm feeling lazy like that. I guess its triggered by using the copy function...

    Also check that you haven't used any "sexual" terms. It now blocks anything remotely sexual... fucking ridiculous. It can be anything from the word dirty naughty and the obvious ones.

    The new changes are really fucking annoying. One misplaced swear and you have to re-type the whole fucking thing again.

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    I haven't done online dating but from what some girls have told me is that they get between 100 to 200 messages per day. A lot of those messages are the SAME GUYS who are SPAMMING them every few days. These guys use the shot gun approach to get lucky. Shoot a gun into a crowd of women and hope one hits a target or ANY target.

    The new rules probably work in your favor. An AFC usually can't adapt and come up with more than 1 good opener. Use the material here and open up girls with a variety of messages.

    Now if the spamming of messages cuts down the clutter in her in box, your unique message will stick out a lot better if it's 1 of of 25 or 1 of only 50 messages she receives.


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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    thanks guys for the feed back . I will try that and just retype.
    this is an example of what i sent yesterday

    " Iím not good at writing emails to strangers but bare with me. There is something about your profile that caught my eye. Maybe it was that you are a husky fan or you seem to have a passion for music. Letís see if you are as nice and interesting as your profile describes you.
    Let me guess you have received 509 emails from guys something like ď Hi . I am Brad. I like long walks on the beach , cuddling , and wine ď if that is what you are used to then this email is refreshing. I am not one to talk about myself but Iím 38 , tall , have my act together and Iím really funny. So if you donít like to laugh then youíre in trouble.
    worst case ? you might make a cool friend. So letís get together for a drink sometime. "

    I would copy and paste but change it based on their profiles what they liked.

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post
    thanks guys for the feed back . I will try that and just retype.
    this is an example of what i sent yesterday

    " Iím not good at writing emails to strangers but bare with me. There is something about your profile that caught my eye. Maybe it was that you are a husky fan or you seem to have a passion for music. Let’s see if you are as nice and interesting as your profile describes you.
    Let me guess you have received 509 emails from guys something like ď Hi . I am Brad. I like long walks on the beach , cuddling , and wine ď if that is what you are used to then this email is refreshing. I am not one to talk about myself but Iím 38 , tall , have my act together and Iím really funny. So if you donít like to laugh then youíre in trouble.
    worst case ? you might make a cool friend. So letís get together for a drink sometime. "

    I would copy and paste but change it based on their profiles what they liked.


    Firstly, its too long I think, 2-3 lines are enough and secondly your message sounds like an AFC message. Don't get me wrong it sounds normal, but thats the problem, it sounds like a message 99% of other blokes would send and you dont want to be like them. Be different, be witty, be interesting.

    Check out some of the openers here to give you an idea.
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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    Your opener is far too apologetic in tone "I’m not good at writing emails to strangers but bare with me."

    horrible start to a message. You're basically saying "I have no confidence but please take pity and read this" axe it!

    You don't really need to talk about yourself in your first message. It's all about her.

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Your opener is far too apologetic in tone "Iím not good at writing emails to strangers but bare with me."

    horrible start to a message. You're basically saying "I have no confidence but please take pity and read this" axe it!

    You don't really need to talk about yourself in your first message. It's all about her.

    I couldn't have said it any better. That's great advice.

    When you begin by talking about yourself you DLV. You are trying to justify why she should be talking to you. Instead just put it on her to justify why she should be talking to you. That's DHV.

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    wow guys had not thought about it that way. Great advice and much appreciated !!!! this site rocks

    BTW figured out I was doing wrong. I was replying in quick message instead of going to bottom and sending a message

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    ok so now shorter version

    There is something about your profile that caught my eye. Maybe it was that you are a husky fan or you seem to have a passion for music. Letís see if you are as nice and interesting as your profile describes you.

    Let's go out for a drink

    you think that would be too short ? some of these women's profiles don't say much

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    Default Re: Copy and paste blocked on POF

    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post

    There is something about your profile that caught my eye. Maybe it was that you are a husky fan or you seem to have a passion for music. Let’s see if you are as nice and interesting as your profile describes you.
    Better but still has some problems. It's a little boring... the text needs to have more fire and upbeat energy in it. If she like's music go with "Hey there little rockstar! Seeing as I Love a girl with a bit of a musical side... etc etc"

    you can also throw in a few generic terms like "you seem like you know how to rock out and I figure you have a bit of a quirky side"

    the dog thing is a little boring on it's own so leave it to the end...

    "P.S. you're Husky fan too? Ticking the boxes little missy x"


    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post
    Let's go out for a drink
    NO! Never ask for a meet up in the first message you've built no attraction so far and it shows way too much interest.


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