So, I got her number four months ago from Tinder, asked her out, flaked because her business had a problem. Deleted her number (angry beta move). I am 29, she is 32, both yuppies working for large corporations.
3 months later, I sent her a text believing she was a friend from gym. Her number was still in iphone’s memory but not assigned to her name. Brief conversation, she told me she was that gal from tinder If I remembered her, etc, and she said when could we know each other.
Called her next day for Thursday drinks, and went. Her business is real, so the flake was probably legit. I told her beforehand I had to go to another party, but she invited me to his friend’s flat for an open house. Went for a couple hours, talked and laughed with her friends. No kiss, minimum kino (ocassionaly grabbed shoulders, arms, etc). Called her Wednesday night, no reply, she texted 10 mins later saying she was at work, I textedher to tell me when she was out (so I could call her). She texted me midnight saying sorry, I went for dinner with friends. I sent a message (but did not called as to not being pushy) Thursday to ask for Friday night drinks. She replied 2 hours later in friendly tone manner saying she had a bachelorette party.
So, here are the facts: 3 IOIs: (i) she remembered me (or had my phone saved); (ii) she asked when should we know each other; and (iii) invited the guy she just met 2 hours before to his childhood friend's place.
I have kept messaging to a minimum. My plan is no contact until next Wednesday noon where I will ask her for the weekend.
What do the masters think of the IOIs? Is my plan of minimum contact sound?