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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    Most people here have already said it, but I wanna post too

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling girls about it. But Batman is right - no one wants to feel manipulated.

    Don't tell her about "techniques," tell her more about how you would have never had the confidence to make eye contact, go say hello, or tease her like you did until you learned game.

    There is not supposed to be a "separate personality." I know exactly what you mean, but you're missing something.

    Game is not off or on. It's not something you use when you go talk to them, true game comes from the transformations you make.

    You may be following a blueprint for now while you're learning, but eventually you'll gain true confidence, you'll tease people just because it's what you do. You'll use Kino on everyone from targets to coworkers because it's part of how to be more social and engaging.

    Focus on what you can take away. Game techniques are designed to make you appear high value in a set. But don't you always want to be high value?
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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    Oh and let me follow up with one thing - everyone knows I game.

    I'm an accountant and I've talked about game with my supervisor, I've even made presentations to my coworkers on how to use body language and conversational techniques to build rapport with clients.

    My girlfriend knows about game, she knew probably by our third date, and now she comes out with me in the field as I help other people in the community here. There's nothing sly or manipulative about learning to be more confident and more sociable. Tell girls about the self improvement aspects of it and what you've really taken away and they'll love it. Self improvement is like chik-crack.
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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I've had many a experience with this. The first thing is that NO ONE likes to feel manipulated. Even if you're doing it. I mean, if a woman manipulated you to buying her a car, but you had no idea of it until after you got it for her, you'd feel like a pretty big chump. To avoid that I usually say this ...

    "What we do doesn't guarantee anything. Only increase our chances. We can't control a woman, only influence."

    Not only do I really believe this, but it eases their mind of the whole manipulation thing.

    Also if you see the girl( same class in school). Everytime you talk to her she will feel like you're trying to game her. That's what happened when I showed the girl my PUA journal.
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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    I just tell girls about stuff I learn and say I'm just really into psych and socialogy (which I am anyway).

    Not every girl of course. Just mentioning and explaining validation, value, rapport has really worked for me as a hook point.
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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    To add to this conversation. I think everyone who practices game should attempt to explain approach anxiety to a woman. It is amazing how they have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. They just can't fathom how a guy could be terrified of approaching a woman.

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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    Nothing wrong with telling girls about it. There are better ways to frame it though.

    Listing how you manipulated her won't help the cause.

    Everyone manipulates everyone ALL THE TIME. People don't like to acknowledge that, but it's the truth.

    If you have 2 personalities, you are gaming incorrectly. At first, you may have to do non-habit actions until they are habit but eventually it should be who you are. You shouldn't have a game persona and a non-game persona. Turn your old self into a self2.0.

    I have a wingman group in vegas and several girls actually reached out to me to come and hang out in the group. Women like it, they just don't want to feel used.

    Also, if you slept with her then told her you gamed her, she would have thought you were the best seducer on the planet.
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    Default Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    To add to this conversation. I think everyone who practices game should attempt to explain approach anxiety to a woman. It is amazing how they have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. They just can't fathom how a guy could be terrified of approaching a woman.

    (not directly on point, but in the ball park)
    I think that goes both ways... most guys can't understand that a girl would find it scary to approach them either, and yet they do.


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