Re: Important tip to know FOR REAL
I tell girls about the PUA arts. However, I am very careful with who I do tell it to.
The first time I told a girl, who happened to be my best friend in college at the time, about this, she stabbed me in the back and created a huge social crisis for me about halfway through my spring semester of college. Needless to say, we are not friends anymore.
The second girl I told showed a severe amount of interest in it. She was a friend, and I had no intention of gaming her. I told her about all the mechanics of relationships and picking up someone of the opposite sex. She was amazed and asked if I was going to college to be a psychologist. I told her "nope, Computer Scientist".
The third girl I told had a meltdown. The circumstances were not right, and she proceeded to lash out at me for the next month.
Overall, I believe that you can tell girls, but you have to be careful about who. I think the reason you got such a bad reaction was because you lied a lot to her in an effort to protect yourself. Not a smart or morally honorable move.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X