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    Default What to do when a girl hits on you

    What do you do when a girl shows the IOIs during your approach within minutes?

    I went to a coffee shop the other day and made conversation with an HB9.5. She kept showing IOIs and had a great conversation for a few minutes until she realized she still had to write her paper for fashion school in Italy. "I'm really enjoying talking to you but I need to get back to the paper I'm writing"

    Should I just be like, "HEY THATS 3 IOIS, NUMBER AND KISS ME PLEASE!"?

    Lol, that's honestly what I kinda been expecting lately, like some magic dust to fall and that happens.

    Is this a normal sticking point to have?

    Also, sometimes I get hit on and I treat it like I still need to demonstrate value, even though clearly I nonverbally did, which is why she's talking to me. "Kiss close now HB8 you already like me."?

    What is supposed to happen once she shows interest and your game is working during the initial meet?

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    Default Re: What to do when a girl hits on you

    They're definitely sh!t testing you. If a HB9 or above is the one doing the escalating, you're either Don Juan DeMarco, or she's testing your ability to handle an attractive woman. The hotter a woman gets, the more devious her traps are. If you don't properly handle her IOIs (which they can definitely fake) through good push/pull and escalation timing, she's already moved on.

    Once she has shown enough IOIs, you should be escalating with both kino (subtle physical contact like a hand on her shoulder, guiding her by the small of her back, etc) and by transitioning from humor to emotional connection. From there, one more IOI and you can escalate further and drop some innuendo or sexual humor with even more kino. At that point, if you've done all those things without being creepy or awkward, you'll know the moment to k close.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: What to do when a girl hits on you

    You should think about getting her number? Now you missed out on an opportunity of ever seeing her again.
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    Default Re: What to do when a girl hits on you

    You can escalate with kino and push. But to me that's considered high risk/high reward. You haven't set yourself as a challenge to her. So she will literally walk away the second she's bored with you. I mean, what did she really do to earn your interest other than flirt? It reveals you're easy to get.

    So I'd qualify. If you don't know how to then you better learn. I wrote an introductory post on qualification. But there's plenty of good material on it. It basically says you have to get her to prove herself to you without being a douche about it. This'll staple in her mind that you aren't easy and don't completely melt in her hand over a couple of IOIs from her.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: What to do when a girl hits on you

    Am I the only one who feels some kind of way when a girl hits on me? ( I feel like the girl and have no power). Am I the only one?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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