Re: The long story of my rejections
Meteora! I absolutely love your response. It's what I was thinking, but couldn't word it right. I would also like to add:
Indirect and direct are categorized as low risk/low reward and high risk/high reward. With direct game it's almost has NOTHING to do with what you're actually saying. It's all in the body language and tonality. That's why if you aren't being 100% sincere about the approach it will be off, since you chose direct, and your body language or tonality will betray you.
Now I'd like to clarify something. I'm more of a night game person than a day game. That's one of the things I'm working on. But I have done some day approaches and there are certain things I keep in mind. I'm sure you already know this, but even I sometimes forget the basics and have to be reminded.
- Good eye contact (this is probably the most important thing)
- Body rock (if it's during the day and she looks busy then you should look like you have to be somewhere as well)
- Speak slow and clear. Almost hypnotic.
Vin Di Carlo said his best approaches were when he only spent two min with the women before the number close. The reason is that the woman's imagination will fill in the gaps of what kind of guy you are. So if you leave a really good impression and she doesn't know anything about you, once you're gone, she will idealize you as "the perfect man" according to what she likes. And no matter what you tell her, she can always imagine something better. You know this if you have ever got so hung up on a girl, but then found out later she was a bitch lol. So let her imagination do the work for you and keep the interactions short. It's something to try, right?
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."