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Thread: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

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    Default Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Hey champs,

    Yesterday I approached a HB 9 directly. She responded very positively and easily I got her number. She told me: What are you up to tonight? I am going to The Argyle (club) with my friends tonight, you should join us". I said OK, see you at 10 in the Argyle.

    At 10pm she texted me that "Are you coming?". Then I replied "yes I am at the door, please come and find me here". (I did this on purpose to make her put some effort to see such a valuable man lol). Then she came downstairs and took me upstairs and introduced me to her friends. After a while of chatting and dancing I noticed a guy wasrubbing her bum constantly and they kissed a few times! Apparently that douche bag was her boyfriend. I got annoyed and just left the club without saying goodbye!

    I am wondering what happened? Did she think I wanted to be her friend?! Or was it a game or something?!!

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Hey champs,

    Yesterday I approached a HB 9 directly. She responded very positively and easily I got her number. She told me: What are you up to tonight? I am going to The Argyle (club) with my friends tonight, you should join us". I said OK, see you at 10 in the Argyle.

    At 10pm she texted me that "Are you coming?". Then I replied "yes I am at the door, please come and find me here". (I did this on purpose to make her put some effort to see such a valuable man lol). Then she came downstairs and took me upstairs and introduced me to her friends. After a while of chatting and dancing I noticed a guy wasrubbing her bum constantly and they kissed a few times! Apparently that douche bag was her boyfriend. I got annoyed and just left the club without saying goodbye!

    I am wondering what happened? Did she think I wanted to be her friend?! Or was it a game or something?!!
    Maybe she did think you wanted to be a friend. Although I totally understand where you're coming from I think you messed up a little, because her friends could be HBs, she will probably not have a bf for the rest of her life and you can always use bf destroyer techniques if you wish to
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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Thanks Cesar bur I think it's very insulting to take someone to a club and then kiss a douche bag in front of his eyes. She could have thought I wanted to be a friend if she had never been approached but I don't think it is the case.

    If I wanted to stay and try to hit on her friends (who were mostly 3-4 bald men) I would have lowered my value dramatically. Instead I just left and went to see if there was a chance of picking a hottie in the club but due to my anger and low energy I decided to go home.

    My question is do I have to clear my intention when I approach or the approach is already obvious?

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    tbh it sounds like you have enough friends without her (harsh but fair), so i say you made the right move cause i was in a similar situation a few months back and it turned out well when she noticed i'd gone :> no use lowering urself

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Hey man, I know it sucks, but it's part of the territory. One of the golden rules is to not ask if she has a bf since she will likely lie depending on her initial interest in you.

    I've gamed girls for almost half a night before I found out they had bfs. Not a big deal. You can always use bf destroyers if you want OR (this is my favorite) turn them into a pivot. Make her your FRIEND. And she will introduce you to her friends. And guess what.....did you know that gfs and bfs can actually split? Like...they can break up. Isn't that awesome?! So guess who'd be there after you bang some of her friends and ready to bang her after her heartbreaking split? YOU! Next time don't walk away and make her a friend.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Thanks BatMan for the reply but I have to disagree with you on becoming a friend. Because trying to hit on her friends is needy. We do the game to have access to as many women as we want so if someone pisses me off by taking me to a club and making out with a douche in front of my eyes then I don't her favor.

    And I do believe if I become her friend I will live in her friend zone for good. Once you are a friend you are unlikely to upgrade to a partner.

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Thanks BatMan for the reply but I have to disagree with you on becoming a friend. Because trying to hit on her friends is needy. We do the game to have access to as many women as we want so if someone pisses me off by taking me to a club and making out with a douche in front of my eyes then I don't her favor.

    And I do believe if I become her friend I will live in her friend zone for good. Once you are a friend you are unlikely to upgrade to a partner.
    Everyone has their style. But I can tell you that because I didn't hit on one specific woman I met after I found out she was married I banged 3 of her friends. One of them was my LTR for a bit. And even got me my job at her husbands company. Also another woman I was friends with for over 10 years. Once I learned game and decided to game her it took me two weekends spent with her to bang her. And I was heavy in the friendzone.

    I still think you should give it a shot. But everyone has their style.
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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    I'm gonna have to agree with BatMan here. I get you we're pissed off, I would be too, but part of being a PUA is being comfortable in all situations and seeing the opportunities. You had a whole fresh club and a pivot to boot, and we all know sets open 10 times more easily if we already have a woman with us.

    Plus, you showed a reaction to her actions, if you react we all know where that leads...serious DLV.

    Again, I see how you were angry, but you should have taken the opportunity to carry on. Even if her friends were all guys, it's still all social proof.

    Plus even if she sees you as a friend, she sees you as a friend she can take to clubs, good pivot material.

    As the other guys said, you could have gone down the bf destroyer route, not my thing personally but a good option in your situation.

    Good luck with future sarges, just remember, in a place with a pivot and social proof isn't a bad thing, what do you have to lose?

    All the best.

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    Default Re: Did I pick up a girl with her boyfriend?!

    Thanks so much Gemini.

    Can you please tell me how would I clear my intention upon approaching?

    Cheers


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