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Thread: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

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    Default 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Hey guys, I haven't been on this website in ages. I used to read and read and read. Now I've finally grown a pair and started approaching. To those of you stuck in a reading phase but not practicing, I promise you that approaching is fifty times more significant than any book.

    If someone could read my approach and answer a few questions I'm curious about, that'd be awesome.

    So I visited home for a week (I go to school in another province) and on day 5 of 7, I hit up the beach to surf with a friend. After 2 hours, he left and I went for a run across the beach. I passed two girls (HB7 and HB9) with a guy. I smiled at HB9 and she smiled back at me. I went back to my car after my run, grabbed my towel and came down to the beach. They were both lying on the beach and the guy (a friend) went for a walk by himself (I found out after). So I walked over, put my towel down beside the HB7 and said "I saw you two on the beach earlier, thought you looked cute, and figured I should say hi".
    Conversation went well. I kept them both involved. We all talked for like 15 minutes and the HB9 asked me if I had a girlfriend. I told her I wasn't seeing anyone at the moment and when I asked her, she said she had a boyfriend. What taken girl asks if you have a girlfriend? Was this a shit test or was she asking because her friend might be single and interested? I had to head in town so I chatted them up for a few more minutes before I left.

    I would have given my phone to both of them, got their numbers and propose we meet up again, but I was leaving for another province in two days so there was no point.

    Should I have set up my towel next to the brunette? This is my first two set, so I'm just glad I did it.

    Any advice, pointers, thoughts, or further questions are all welcome. Thanks!

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Not necessarily a shit test, but I can see replying "Of course I do, I don't only have guy friends, silly." with a smirk on your face, though she'll just be like "you know what I mean!" or whatever, and you can play on the ridiculous word that "girlfriend" is and say "Well, I don't date girls... I prefer women. Far less maintenance." Or whatever... I think our problem as men is that we take what women say too seriously/literally. I have my greatest success when I always stay 1 step ahead of them and twist words around and insert light innuendo in when I can.

    As for our towel question, I don't see it as relevant. That's overthinking... you carried a 15+ minute conversation with 2 girls that you never met before. That was a win man... great work.

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Thanks for the feedback Dannov!

    I'm a big fan of word innuendo. : )

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Yep innuendos man. That's how to do it.

    When you really get confident and use to approaching, you can get even braver with your responses. Here's mine.

    HER: "Do you have a girlfriend?"
    ME: "Why are you volunteering? I have an opening this Saturday."

    And if she says she has a boyfriend, think nothing of it.
    ME: "Oh perfect. He can make us breakfast in bed."

    Me, personally, I would've gotten her number anyways, just for practice and it gets you conditioned to rejection (if you do get denied). Best case scenario is she actually gives you it. Worst case scenario, you hear the excuses and will be prepared for the same type next time. It will give you the opportunity to reflect on your game. Even when I did have a girl friend, I would talk to other girls, see if I can N-close them, and if I do, delete it after.

    But enjoy this achievement. Gratz.

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    Yep innuendos man. That's how to do it.

    ME: "Oh perfect. He can make us breakfast in bed."
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    I think this can be a little rude if you just met the girl,especially if she DOES have a BF.

    Don't get me wrong,that line is gold,but you should use it when you know you can get away with it.

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Yes. And it's also how you say it. It will depend on your demeanor at that time and whether it is consistent. If you are confident and playful throughout and show you are carefree, then they will laugh it off. I never had this fail me or any other variants.

    HER: "I have a boyfriend."
    ME: "It's okay. We don't need him."

    HER" "I have a boyfriend."
    ME: "It's okay, I'm not jealous."

    HER" "I have a boyfriend."
    ME" "Cool. He can keep you busy while I'm not around."

    You just don't want to show that you are affected and caught flatfooted by the fact that she has a boyfriend, which is why I never ask if she does because I don't care. I let them bring it up first.

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    Thanks for all the feedback guys. It's really appreciated. I'm going to start posting my approaches on here if they're interesting. I landed a number at the airport of a 27 year old french woman yesterday. Turns out she's married. I'm not a homewrecker.

    I should have gotten her number anyway. You're right. In that circumstance, should I have gotten the number of the hotter one, or both numbers to meet up again?

    The lines after "I have a boyfriend" are golden. I'm just getting into daygame, so all this is extremely helpful. I've been sarging on my own. Finding someone to sarge with would probably be motivating as well.

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    Default Re: 2set at the Beach- Looking for feedback

    As a general PUA rule, just close on the one you are most interested in.

    And in case you fail on your primary, don't be like some guys who tries to N-close on the friend. No girl wants to feel like second choice and chances are you will get blown out there too.

    Opening a 2-set is generally tougher. Sometimes the friend could be a mother hen, jealous, and cockblock you.

    Just keep at it. Practice makes permanent.


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