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Thread: Need help with girl from gym with bf!

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    Default Need help with girl from gym with bf!

    Hey guys was just seeing if anyone could give me a hand on a cute girl that comes to my gym! We speak all the time flirt and kino and play little games, but foud out she has a bf but said she is on a break with him? Any advice?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from gym with bf!

    Quote Originally Posted by scott-tay1 View Post
    Hey guys was just seeing if anyone could give me a hand on a cute girl that comes to my gym! We speak all the time flirt and kino and play little games, but foud out she has a bf but said she is on a break with him? Any advice?
    If she's on a break with her bf, that means that relationship is done and out and she's just waiting for someone to come along and give her a reason to make the break-up official more or less. That's my interpretation anyway... you're on a break for a reason; you're not working out together.

    She is clearly into you, so next time you're talking to her, suggest that you two grab coffee after the gym or whenever you think is good. Otherwise, you'll just be her flirty guy friend while some other dude is banging her on the side.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from gym with bf!

    Dannov has a point there. I've witnessed many cases where women who've been with a guy 3-5 years. She knows that the guy is "not the one," but she stays with him because of a comfort level (whether it's for stability, sex, w/e). But, trust me they are looking for greener pastures and the moment they find someone who sweeps them off their feet, they are gone.

    I've only seen one exception - A friend of mine who has been with his girl since freshman high school and been a couple for 9 years. They did go on a break once. But ended up back together and ultimately got married and are still together until this day with a kid.

    My only advice is find out how long they have been together and figure out if you are going to move in. Worst case scenario, they have been in a long term relationship, you and her don't work out and she realizes how much she loves the other guy.

    But as far as I'm concerned, if she is on a break, she is open season.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from gym with bf!

    Thanks heaps guys, I found out in her relationship they have only been together for nearly a year and she said she is pretty much over it, and has been going out more now, so I told her she has to come out with me next weekend, but only said we will see? ? Any other ideas??

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from gym with bf!

    I don't know the exact details of your interactions with her, but whenever a girl doesn't give a definitive answer with lines like "We will see?" "Maybe sometime" "I'm pretty busy," she's not attracted enough. Even if there is kino and what you think are IOIs, she could be the friendly type or even a cock tease.

    What worked for me in the past was taking a step back with a light freeze out, mentally prepare myself into an alpha frame, have a plan, and go back in. You might be amazed.

    That's how I met my current HB girl. First go, my game wasn't all there and I even felt it. I wasn't in the right frame at the time. I didn't get a definitive answer.

    Second go (after a 4 day interval), my game was tight, I had a plan, my frame was alpha, wit was sharp, we were vibing. She flipped completely. Despite her busy schedule of working 2 jobs and volunteering once a week, she made time.

    You know you've done well when it feels like you just put on a great performance.


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