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    no.name10452 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Do I still have a chance with her?

    after a big fight with my ex-girlfriend, and after i said really impolite words and yelling and doubting her and blaming her for things i thought was wrong, i went to no contact relationship with her for about 1 week

    yesterday, i wanted to apology, so i bought her flowers and wrote an apology/closure letter, and went to her home, she was upstairs in her room, she refused to speak with me, both her sister and mom told her to come down, but she refused.

    So i left the flowers and the letter, i apologize to her parents for making them doubt her when i told them she is dating a really bad guy, which i finally knew they are friends, and i went back home.

    1- why did she refused to face me and did not come down?
    2- will she read the letter? or she will throw it out?
    3- and the last thing, what can i do now? i feel humiliated

    i really love her and regret my bad behavior, i dont want to push her out of our "broken" relationship, but i sent that closure letter to show her that i just want her to be happy with her life. but i really need her next to me.

    please advice.

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    no.name10452 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Do I still have a chance with her?

    any advice?? anyone??

    come on guys/girls i thought this was a good place for brilliant ideas and advises...

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    Default Re: Do I still have a chance with her?

    No one replied because this place is a PUA forum for players/seducers, not a Dear Abby column. What you are asking is anything but seduction, but being an AFC.

    But since I just came back to the forums, I give you a few tidbits.

    We don't do flowers here - that's pretty beta and a chump move.
    We don't do letters - be a man, when things cool down confront her face to face. Look her in the eye. Don't be apologetic. Say "If I hurt or upset you, it's not what I wanted."

    She will forgive you for being a man. But she won't forgive you for being a pussy.

    Answers in line
    1 - She's pissed, wounds too raw, w/e you wanna call it.
    2 - You would know her better than anyone else. If you have to ask, then you weren't together long enough to be in a solid relationship.
    3 - Don't chase her. Chasing is unattractive and deep in her subconsciousness she is thinking "I just made him my bitch." *Female Rage on* If you have "One-itis" you need to get over it before you can even become a player.

    Bottom line: You are not seducing her to make yourself look attractive by kissing her ass with flowers and letters.


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