Re: Input on something regarding 2 girls
As long as things with the other girl are settled, and she doesn't have any grudges against you, you should be fine with going after this one. Both of you may have different feelings and preferences, and if you are on a positive note with her, then it's not a jerk move to go after her friend. In fact, if you two are good friends, then she may help you out by putting a good word in for you with the friend. This can prove to be extremely beneficial.
However, if the girl is neutral, or does not like the idea of you being with her friend, then she will move to tear it down. There are ways to stop this, and they can be quite effective due to the fact that it takes advantage of your greatest advantage:
You are the man of mystery.
She doesn't know who you really are. All she's got are second-hand accounts and knowledge. She hasn't observed everything in person, nor does she know everything about you. If she calls you out using something that she got from her friend, tell her this:
"Do you believe everything that anybody tells you?"
She will most likely respond with a no. After this, you then lay down the hammer.
"Listen; I'm looking for a girl who can make her own opinions and judgments. If you aren't capable of doing that yourself, then I'm afraid that we're just going to have to be friends"
This will shut down the other friend and allow you to deal with the target unhindered because the target now believes that everything she thought was true with you may be false. This will strike curiosity, and curiosity is an IOI that, when you play your cards right, will put you right on the green.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X