Re: Built attraction ok, then messed it up. Still hope?
Can't say much, but if I have to make a guess, you might got stuck with attraction for too long and forgot to escalate into the next level.
Sometimes chicks get bored when you get stuck in a particular phase too much. They notice your weakness that you're struggling to shift into a new phase, and sadly most of them don't help through it, but just freeze you out.
My suggestion is, if you think you got attraction covered try escalating into a more sexual state. Or you might want to go safe and play your comfort card to connect on another level.
Those are my opinions, I bet other dudes can give more insight to this.
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It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.