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    yellowkoala is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I kino to stand out from the rest?

    I really like this girl in college, she kinda has a boyfriend already but I've gotten plenty of IOIs from her since I've started initiating kino on her. I know she has feelings for me and that I'm not her typical friendzoned guy friend.

    Anyway, there are other guys who kino her, like touching her stomach, and I really want to be the one who touches her and create a lot of tension. I don't want to kino her where other guys kino her because she might begin to consider me like those other friendzoned guys(like I said, I get IOIs and we have our moments together some times) and I want to stand out from the rest, what are good places for me to touch her? Or is there a way for me to kino better?

    I usually brush my fingers along her forearm, whenever I have to get her attention by tapping on her arms I do so gently, when I hand her something I let my fingers linger at the tip of hers and curl them just before contact is released, and I sometimes touch her on the "boyfriend spot" that part of her lower back, done it twice for a couple of seconds each.

    Oh and I need some tips on how to keep this "spark" that we have going, because at the moment she has a boyfriend and I have never asked about him, nor has she mentioned him directly to me. It's been about 2 months, and this month we've been getting closer together(but I try to avoid getting too close so as to become her go-to-guy-bestfriend), I've never admitted any feelings for her, I've only been hinting at them, I don't know if I've hinted strongly sometimes and I'm not sure if she's figured me out, but for her birthday this month I drew a pencil portrait of her and she keeps it in her room. (well I suppose that's a strong hint that I like her, I guess)

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    Default Re: How do I kino to stand out from the rest?

    For the strong points she likes you.second before you commit make sure she has cut ties with boyfriend completely as in totally over him.The pencil portriat was not bad but it comes off as too needy.a bit like you thinking a bit too deep when it comes to her.next time you will sketch you could bring the girl over its best in this situation.
    it risky and kind of dlv to keep spark with someone who has boyfriend since its like accepting you are cool with her dating both of you.in attraction we want the best option.this is why single girls suffice.i'll assume in college there are other girls...if you have attracted this one what about the other hot ones, since you guys are not exclusive,she cannot really complain because she is one herself.don't make it obvious though.run game innocently.

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    Default Re: How do I kino to stand out from the rest?

    ^
    I don't see how a pencil portrait comes off as needy at all ?If he's good at drawing that was the coolest b-day present,if he spent money on her b-day present,especially if he tried to buy an expensive gift-that would be needy.

    If anything that should've been impressive.

    About Kino,at first you should get used to touching everyone around you and her,so it wouldn't come across as you're only touching her,for example I usually touch people's ears(boys and girls) just for fun or you know friend-hugging people(boys and girls),doing this i can easily touch the girl i want to hook up with.I always use kino at this point.

    You can touch whatever you find excuse to,this should be natural,if you hesitate or look for approval,she might blow you off.

    Kino is also part of our communication,it's natural.

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    Default Re: How do I kino to stand out from the rest?

    The pencil portriat was not bad but it comes off as too needy.
    Ra1d, somehow I have to kinda agree with this because even though it didn't cost him anything, you still got that "time" constant that you forgot about. it must have taken him a fair amount of his time to make that drawing. And time is what defines alpha male in a sense because they have places to see, people to meet, adventure to explore, and if he is spending his time thinking about her and showing it through the drawing while she is not even his girl, that a bit kinda needy I would think.
    But anyways yellowkoala, if you want new ways to kino her, try to check books that talks about "anchoring" that should help, and I heard that its pretty powerful too.
    good luck.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: How do I kino to stand out from the rest?

    I don't see how a pencil portrait comes off as needy at all ?
    This is not bashing the concept of drawing girls but outlining the effects that come with this.this girl even liked him.but then as said its best to bring the girl over in your hangout and then sketch if you may.she has a boyfriend too so yh.Imagine a situation where some men even take a picture without the girl knowing.. and surprising her with it.at first she may excited but then.you were spying took a picture of me or from social network thinking of me and took time to draw without consent.what have i done to deserve this .woah this guy must really have time on his hands.bet am cooler than him.why even think of him.he is solved on some level.This is a very extreme example but yh.its best for the girl to be present, or say she asks you but make sure she earned it.

    Yep Nikee kinda got the concept of it

    Another thing is say you are into that and in your room /collection you have portraits of some girls who asked you to paint,you show this to her or she accidentally comes across it , and asks you then you may.


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