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    Default I might have scared her

    This HB9 and I had been talking on and off for about a week and everything was going great... even according to most of you guys. Then I managed to be fuck up.

    Me: Chicken little, the Rivers Arts Festival is starting today and will be here for a week, let's go Tuesday!

    HB: Oooo!! Sounds cool
    HB: Why's you call me chicken little? Hahahaha

    Me: It was that or Dork Butt. 5:03 seems like a good time to head down. They have some good bands coming this year... plus.... the food <3

    HB: Oooo I love food <3 <3

    Me: What's your number? I'll let you know more details in a few days, but Tuesday should work.

    End of conversation. The festival is since over and I've seen 2 girls since this message. Looking back at this, I know I messed up and ignored her signs of disinterest. How should I go about setting up a date though? In my previous posts, I've shown our full conversations & as I said before, they wen't very well. We even talked about meeting up. I think asking for her number was too direct and actually.. unimportant.

    Feedback would be great!
    Thanks, fellas!

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    Default Re: I might have scared her

    hey bimmer,
    I personnaly read a lot about number close "principles" and for some reason, now when I watch movies and a guy is running game on a hb, I see the same pattern emerge every time when it come to number close. so I kinda try to use the same pattern and here's my gambit for number closing:
    1. I get her interested enough, then hint that this is just the tip of my iceberg and there is more to come if she hang out long enough with me.
    2. try to have her involve in what we are talking about.
    3. Then I say "I really like this energy you got going and it is very refreshing. I would like to keep this kind of positive energy around and continue this discussion (or whatever you told her before). What steps can WE take to make that happen?"
    Or again " I like the way you approach this question, you really are way mature than you appear to be. I would like to keep this type of genius thinking around for future references. What steps can WE take to make it happen?"

    By doing so, you subtly compliment her on something "not sexual or physical" (which I think women like), but also in step 3, if she propose to give you her number, which happened to me more than 50%, it unconsciously in her mind make her feel like now she is the one chasing you because you didn't ask for her number, "she proposed to give it to you" after running that gambit. and like somebody said before sometimes you have to start by seducing her subconscious first and let the subconscious tell her conscious mind how of a great person you are.

    If she doesn't propose right away to give you her number, at least she would say something else, but still propose something, maybe email, postal box number (lol)... and that's when you neg her by saying something along the lines of "Oh, lord in this world of technology you still have a postal box/ or using email for your day to day errands? I would prefer a direct line to my BFF, unlike you. I could work with a phone number"

    I'm not and expert, so really take the good and useful out of my post and use it to your advantage, but this gambit been gold for me.
    Good luck and keep me posted after you try it.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: I might have scared her

    The number close did seem a bit awkward. But I don't think this killed you. It's way too minor to just completely turn her off from you. There has to be another reason. Something that you have or have not done up to this point or something that you have no control over (such as an ex bf). I wouldn't beat yourself up too much over this. AFCs can be far more aggressive and amateurish with trying to get the phone number. Simply do a freezeout and reinitiate in about a week.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: I might have scared her

    I don't actually think asking for the number here was a bad thing at all. Unfortunately, I don't think she was ever interested in going. Her comments were general statements, not commitments. She may enjoy talking to you but doesn't know if she wants to hang out with you yet (clearly as she didn't respond). Don't think you by any means jacked this up though. Be a little persistent. Re-initiate, then dive right back into to trying to get her to hang out.


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