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    Default Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Hey guys,

    My name's Chris I'm 19 and there is this girl (same age) who I've been wanting to date for many many months, but she has been in a relationship with another guy for a year and a half. We're close friends and she knows that if she was single I would ask her out and I am quite sure that she would say yes, IF she was single. So I've come here seeking tips, advice, instruction anything that may increase my chances of getting with this girl. If you need more details or have question please don't hesitate to give me a shout.

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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    My advice is, don't screw with a relationship unless you know there's a good reason to...
    Such as, physical abuse or something potentially life-threatening.

    Here's the thing...
    If a girl will leave a guy for you, she'll also leave YOU for another guy, unless you're a complete bad-ass alpha man, & know what it takes to build a solid relationship & keep it.


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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Thank you for your reply and I do see your point, it's really is a brutal thing to want to break up a happy healthy relationship. But here's the thing what if I don't have to? Both of them are going to University except he's going to be 8 hours away from her and I'll still be close by. Do you think that that kind of long distance relationship could last?

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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Long distance relationships RARELY work out for more than a month or two...

    My advice would be, to keep yourself in the loop.. but don't fall into the friend zone by being too available or letting her vent her troubles to you.

    Be fun, interesting, & just a little flirty.
    But don't try to break them up... because you'll be pegged as "THAT GUY" who screwed things up between them.

    Just play it cool...
    express SOME interest, without making it really obvious.

    And when you discover (down the road) she's "single" make the move.


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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Thank you so much this is exactly what I'm looking for!

    So you say that long distance relationships rarely work out, even if it's a pretty good relationship? Like can a good one not work out too?

    What if you're already in a kind of friend zone but you do flirt with her, which reminds her of your interest? And is it a bad thing to frequently talk to her and occasionally hang out?

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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Long distance relationships CAN work out... but it's a rarity.

    If you're already in the friend zone, you need to back waaaay off & make minimal contact.

    Then, you have to be willing to risk losing her as a friend or otherwise altogether, when it comes time to move in.

    You have to be bold, confident, sure of yourself without seeming arrogant.
    Laughter, fun & intrigue are the keys...
    You can't be they guy she thinks she knows. But the "change" in you can sometimes scare her away.

    But it's the only way out of the friend zone.


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    Default Re: Need help with getting a girl who is currently in a relationship

    Quote Originally Posted by That One Guy View Post
    Thank you so much this is exactly what I'm looking for!

    So you say that long distance relationships rarely work out, even if it's a pretty good relationship? Like can a good one not work out too?

    What if you're already in a kind of friend zone but you do flirt with her, which reminds her of your interest? And is it a bad thing to frequently talk to her and occasionally hang out?
    I had a great relationship with a fantastic girl. We dated for almost 8 months. 6 of those were long distance. I made it a lot longer than most, because I knew what I was doing and I had some help from my fellow allstars, but in the end it just didn't work. Some people can do long distance relationships, but most can't. The only way they work is if there's an end in sight, a time when you two won't be long distance anymore. Otherwise it's doomed to fail.
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