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Thread: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is?

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    Default Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is?

    How many times have you heard the same bullsh1t that all you need in this world or the next is self confidence and all of your dating and sex life problems will be solved?. Well let me tell you something. That is a bunch of BS! Confidence is not enough any more to master yourself, your social environment and your dating and sex life.

    The world has changed. There are more douche bags out there, rougher and tougher men, the media has shifted the way a man should be today(Example-The UFC), meaning Alpha, tough, masculine, not just merely confident in speech but weak in persona and attitude. What does this mean? You have to start working out, pack on some muscle, strengthen your inner paradigm, be dominant amongst other men and leader like in social and inter sexual situations.

    In other words, you need to exhibit signs of physical and mental "Warrior-like" strength. Women expect this today based on the fact that so many men today are working out, getting leaner, meaner, tougher, stronger and more dominant and they want the King Supreme of this bunch as they always have. Make sense?

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    Nice write up, but I don't agree.

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    It's always been like that. Some realize it sooner and others realize it later :

    It's never been the survival of the fittest but the survival of the one that adapts the fastest.

    Learning, taking care of your body and being aware of what's going on in the world is what allows you to do that. Learning the game here on this site is a part of that process.

    Fail to do that and you are just another AFC in this world.

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    Yeah good speech but there's way more you can do with being confident. As for starts... not being aggressive and just being assertive, charismatic and not taking shit, it worked for me and I'm not exactly muscular and in fact I'm the opposite but I never let it stop me pal. Having the balls to go for you want and having discipline with your lifestyle and the way you treat people will go along way.

    I have a nutrition plan and a diet that I stick to it. Plus I love it, just be positive about life and you will go far. People appreciate intelligence as well believe it or not. You can also learn to flirt with girls, giving them a good, fun, remember-able time and understanding the power of making a girl feel special. I can go on. I have a lot more to say but you get the point.
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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    All bullshit, but I'm glad to see you put so much thought into it.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    All of this is a load of hogwash. If being able to resist the flu was a major attraction factor for women, I would have lost my virginity a hundred times over by now. I also work a 9-5 hour job with only one day off, and I now have a group of TWENTY girls who now come in and see me every time I have a day off. TWENTY, and I'm not built like my brothers, who are six foot higher athletes on the state level. I'm just a 5'8'', slightly flabby build lifeguard (I'm working on the flab). The standard of yesterday may be outdated, but it is not completely so.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    No no no. I've seen an not so attractive guy that's not muscular or anything like that talk to many women and get more women than I do. He has this thing right here that you don't believe is enough--------> CONFIDENCE!! Hell yeah he gets rejected a lot but he doesn't care. ( not every women is going to like you) <-------- now that's the secret everybody needs to know. You'll get rejected, humiliated and all that other good experimental stuff but that helps you out after you go home and grow some balls so you can't give up. I think many pua have been rejected soooooooooooooooo many times but they've learned and never gave up; that's why SOME have EARNED the title: MASTER PICK-UP ARTIST( MPUA). So stop b1tching about society and get back on your horse and ride into battle with your battle scars!!
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    Not bad, but you lost me at Sex and the City.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    No no no. I've seen an not so attractive guy that's not muscular or anything like that talk to many women and get more women than I do. He has this thing right here that you don't believe is enough--------> CONFIDENCE!! Hell yeah he gets rejected a lot but he doesn't care.
    And alternatively, I've seen handsome and muscular guys fail to get girls because of a lack of confidence.

    Being fit is good, girls like it (as it means you have dedication and self-control), and it also helps with your confidence, but it is definitely not enough by itself.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Confidence in itself is not enough anymore to attract women. So what is

    Idk where I heard this from but I can't get it out of my brain: trial and error=success
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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