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    Default Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    First of all, sorry I haven't been posting much lately. The book project just got a whole lot bigger. Apparently, somebody thinks I know what I'm doing. I'm doing quite a few 2000 word articles, client sessions and live in field recordings.

    Anyway, MPUA's you guys already know me. My game is super sexual and extremely effective. I rarely talk to any women less than an 8 but I was just starting to wonder if I have a weakness in my game.

    Here's the deal, there are venues in town that I really prefer. They tend to have smoking hot professional women, recounting my last few sarges, Nurse Prac, Lawyer, Teacher, make that two teachers, anyway you get my drift. Lots of very hot intelligent classy women, these are the type of women that I love.

    Here is my question, there are other places where on average the women aren't as hot overall. Of course they do have the occasional super hot girls. The problem is that most of these girls tend to be a little ghetto. The venues that I'm referring to are labeled ghetto. I hear this every time they are brought up in conversation. Lately when I go into this venue I rarely open. The attractive girls that I have met there have all been a little ghetto, so now I find it hard not to dismiss the girls as ghetto, low class or whatever.

    Guys, I can't decide is this a weakness in my game or just an expression of a valid preference?

    Thanks in advance guys.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    woah your outta line man
    Am assuming you sarge both which is not really a bad thing,but then ..
    There is nothing wrong with going after what you want.defintely have your favourite girls in your life you deserve them.i used to have a thing for a specific type even though i don't have one now i don't see what should hold you back.Your mind may be kicking back maybe its time for a relationship or an intense affair or something.PEACE

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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    It's really just dependent on what you're looking for. You've reached the stage in your game where there is now an over-abundance of choice. So sarging for you now is not necessarily the "truest sarging" because choice is starting to play an integral role. You're no longer just tryna pull numbers, and get D1's. You are qualifying women and picking the ones that truly attract you. This is the natural evolution of game, and is not a weakness at all. Never settle for what you don't want/deserve, and that ties directly to preference. It'd be completely different if you were just starting off in the ways of this fine art, but you've reached a level few will ever attain therefore you have the RIGHT to be picky and generalize my friend.

    Note: Just be careful though because generalizing could truly lead you to miss out on some wonderful women. The chances of that happening though are pretty low though. Nobody goes to the projects in search of their soul mate lol.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    You don't game them because you can't, you don't game them because you don't want to. So no, that is not a weak point.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    I don't think it bad at all to not hit on every woman available. As long as you have the rep for approaching women you can get away with saying that you feel you are too good for them. Unlike my bro who thinks he's too good for most women.....but is still a virgin at 23 years old lol.

    However, if you are at all curious about this then I'd simply change your focus. Acknowledge that most women can teach you SOMETHING and one of these ghetto women may surprise you. I'm from the ghetto and grew out of that and don't consider myself hood. (Also I don't really care for hood rats either lol)

    Strange giving you my opinion because, although I'm quite experienced, I do not feel I'm on your level of success just yet. Very strange indeed lol.
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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    Yeah, I'm no where near his level, your level batman, or xavier. You guys should truly appreciate what you've become. I'm still relatively new to pickup (started in January), but I've picked up things relatively quickly with good results. It's good to hear things from different angles in Kino 's case. Even if I'm sure he knew the answer deep down.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    Hey Suave Kino,

    I'm with the guys here. Firstly, I rate myself as a pretty good PUA but don't think I'm close to what you can produce.

    Typically when I'm out sarging I also tend to go to a higher class of venue and I'm quite picky but its not a hard and fast rule. I do on occasion go to the lower end hangouts and I'd still sarge there. My thoughts are that girls as a whole are gorgeous, they are simply beautiful to behold and meet and share experiences. even the less attractive ones have so much to offer. I have standards though and if nothings biting I won't gravitate down below the standard.

    It's not your specific weakness bro'. The problem with Master PUAs is that we are caught in our own loop that spirals upwards. We push the boundaries always wanting to gravitate upwards. That in itself means its a general weakness that we are all susceptible to, but imo it's nothing worth worrying about. It's part of PUA and the makeup of being a PUA, and gaming high end women is nothing to feel weak about. it's a sign of strength.

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    Default Re: Kino's - Question MPUA's only

    Hey Kino,

    Late response here. Been busy myself. But I will give you the real answer. In one word - Demographics - is why this is happening, and no, it is not a weakness.

    One of the mistakes many PUAs make is they look for women in the demographics that doesn't fit them. For example, guys who want a serious relationship and goes out to nightclubs to meet crazy drunk party girls. It’s the last place they should be looking for a girlfriend. When they are out of their element, they aren't comfortable, they don't have status, and confidence is reflected by how one perceives oneself.

    Demographics is not just about finding the right girl but establishing an identity for yourself and excelling at it.

    So the fact that you are successful at getting high quality professional women shows that you have established an identity for yourself, a standard, a boundary. When you are going after women in the same demographics, you are comfortable in expressing your identity and thus stand out in your element and be perceived as a high value man = attractive.

    It stands to reason that you are a PUA instructor, but somehow hooked up with TWO TEACHERS - women who are reflective of your identity. Think about it. This is no coincidence. Much the research on attraction coincides with "pre-assortment theory." The people with similar values, beliefs, and interests naturally are attracted to each other EVEN IF they don’t talk about it.

    Dating is not a market. Dating is an economy. And there are sectors in that economy. If attraction is based on status and status is contextual, then this means you might be hot sh1t at X (church fellowships and charities), but a nobody at Y sector (club scene).

    So in your case, just because the ghetto girls doesn't like you or you are not as successful with them no matter how good you are at "the game", it doesn't mean jacksh1t. You probably wouldn't like them either because they are not of your demographics. Assortment theory - It's the women with the same values/interests/beliefs who will find you attractive.

    So what happened to you is actually a strength because you firmly established a strong identity and a standard for yourself. You are able to comfortably accentuate it and by doing so, the more polarizing you become to the women you meet in your sector.

    So my advice to you is stick to those professional women you are most successful with. You obviously like them more and they you. So rather than trying to be "the man" in all sectors, stick to the sector of the dating economy that appeals to you and maximize your place in it.

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