Re: How to tell when a girl is ACTUALLY busy?
- don't ever talk about the fact she flaked, don't even mention it
Originally Posted by HeavyMetalPUA
- do your thing anyway, with a girl if possible, and make it sound awesome the next time you speak with her, still without mentioning she flaked
example: this girl I'm interested in, see her at a party, invite her to get brunch the next morning
next morning: she tells me she can't because she has a horrible hangover (which is probably true, considering how we got hammered the previous night).
Quick, I text another girl: "Hey, I want to go get brunch this morning, with someone fun. Are you fun?" She replies she can't, because she's going to this beer festival with a friend. I text another girl, and she ends up being the friend the previous girl is going to the beer festival with. Damn.
I text a last one, and hurrah, she can. We go get brunch, have fun, I chat her up, escalate, blah blah.
And then, later in the day, I text the original girl, and the second one (not the third, because I know she's with the second), with "Oh God I went to the brunch with a friend, we saw the craziest thing haha. How was your thing?"
If you calibrate correctly (don't insist too much on the fact you went with a girl, else you sound desperate), you should have good return. It's a basic "show don't tell situation". Don't tell her she's missing out, show her, and then she will feel it.
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.