Re: Think I may have psychological issues - I suffer from major onenitis
As he said, feelings are not a psychological issue, they are life. I date quite a lot of girls, but I love when I finally feel this butterfly thingy at the kissing moment.
On another hand, if you suffer from it, it is not a good thing. I used to suffer from major oneitis too, and would totally ignore the girls that were not my main target, and feel so bad as long as I didn't have my main target with me. Not a great feeling.
I know it's difficult to change it, but try to speak to as many girls as possible. Write down what are the things you like about that one girl, and what you don't like. Try to find what are the common qualities between your current oneitis and your previous one. And then try to find these qualities in other people, and you might be surprised.
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.