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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Think I may have psychological issues - I suffer from major onenitis

    For the past 6 months I've had this major thing for a girl at work but recently she started to date someone , I was distraught for 2 weeks but now since she's no longer an option my feelings for her have completely disapated , I feel nothing for her now at all , the problem is my feelings have completely shifted to another girl , I felt nothing for this new girl when I had those feelings for the first girl , theres a social event coming on tonight and this girl will be there , I'm thinking of not going because I can't stand to see her be chatted up by other guys

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    Default Re: Think I may have psychological issues - I suffer from major onenitis

    Itīs a good thing that you have feelings for the girs so no I would not say you have psychological issues. Instead itīs far better than go sarging for the sake of sargin. Creating, or even better having a solid connection with the girls is something I think is important and that every PUA should have.

    When you met another girl did you realize how the feeling changed to the other girl? See, you already found the cure to oneotis yourself. Meet other girls and you will see that special snowflake wasnīt all that special. So just keep sargin and you will not suffer from oneotis anymore.

    Maybe the social gathering tonight is great way to meet some girls and if you have some game, when the oneotis will see you with other girls you will come off as preselected, so itīs a win win, you might meet someone you really like and in the worst case at least you will look preselected. Game on.

    /Caveman

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    Mikalichov is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Think I may have psychological issues - I suffer from major onenitis

    As he said, feelings are not a psychological issue, they are life. I date quite a lot of girls, but I love when I finally feel this butterfly thingy at the kissing moment.

    On another hand, if you suffer from it, it is not a good thing. I used to suffer from major oneitis too, and would totally ignore the girls that were not my main target, and feel so bad as long as I didn't have my main target with me. Not a great feeling.

    I know it's difficult to change it, but try to speak to as many girls as possible. Write down what are the things you like about that one girl, and what you don't like. Try to find what are the common qualities between your current oneitis and your previous one. And then try to find these qualities in other people, and you might be surprised.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.


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