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    Default hot best friend, how to still get girls

    Hi Guys,

    My best mate recently became single. The problem is, now when we go out he's competition rather than a wingman because the girls all fancy him over me.

    I feel like I've made a big mistake inviting him into my social circle because a couple of girls I was keen on seem to really like him and now that my friends have befriended him, I'm basically stuck with him until he gets into another relationship (who knows when that might be).

    Hanging around him makes me feel sh!t now because the girls always pick him over me. He never hits on girls I'm talking to in front of me but when I go to the bar etc I've seen number exchanges taking place.

    My question is: should I avoid hanging around guys who are hotter and more alpha than me? Should I avoid combining friend circles so things like this don't happen? Should I just ditch my friend and this circle and start over?

    Advice please.

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    Default Re: hot best friend, how to still get girls

    Tough one, I've had this before and it sucks.

    My advice would try to catch up with him, and improve enough that they pick you over him. Remember that girls are more attracted to confidence than good looks. Your friend might be confident and good looking though, which sucks, but you can still improve your confidence and game as much as possible to compete with him. Even if you don't actually succeed, you will still have improved a lot. Think about it like going to a fight with Bruce Lee: he will probably get most of the job done by himself, but you will probably learn a couple of things too.

    Other than that, you can work on your relationship with him. Two options:

    - You AMOG him. Bit of a bitch move, but if you're not close enough from him, it might be necessary. There are subtle ways to have a guy down, imply that he respects you and "works" for you, and all that, basically that you are his alpha and he's your beta. Again, kind of douchy but sometimes necessary.

    - You ally with him. Recommended, but requires good relationship. Talk about it with him! Tell him "dude, you don't realize it, but you rock with girls, that's great. I don't do bad either, so let's make a deal, let's work together. You show me the girls you like, I help as much as I can, and I don't try to get them. I show you the girls I like, you help and you don't steal, same deal." It works even better if you have different tastes. And you might find that he's not that confident, or that he actually has a lot of great insight and tips.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: hot best friend, how to still get girls

    Thanks Mikalichov,

    I'll take your advice and try and keep up to speed with this guy although it's gonna be hard because he's much younger, fitter, and more confident. Plus, he's always getting laid so ladies smell it on him.

    I'll be more direct about making him wingman me. If he's a good mate then he should be looking out for me as well as himself otherwise it's bye bye. Even though we've known each other for several years I'm at the stage in my life where I don't mind getting rid of people if they serve no purpose or worse still, get in the way of progress. That being said, if it wasn't him around, some other guy would probably do it anyway.

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    Default Re: hot best friend, how to still get girls

    If your friend is getting your girls, try standing back and watching. Obviously, he is doing something right. I'm willing to bet it's not just his looks.

    If he's gaming your girl while you go to the bar, take her with you. Leave her friend, for him.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: hot best friend, how to still get girls

    Stop being a bitch. IF this is your best friend this shouldn't be happening. I can tell my best friends anything. Call him out, and solve this shit ASAP. I don't want to see this kind of shit here again, not if it's your best friend. I'm sure I can guess what is playing in your head when you guys approach. You may see the girls eyeing him and you start becoming self-conscious, and slowly start to get in your own way.


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