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    tonystark88 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Am I in the wrong or overreacting>?

    Disclaimer: I found another chick to go out with so not all is lost for tonight.

    So I met this girl online we texting/chating/etc. Couldn't meet first weekend as it was her bday weekend. She suggested Tuesday, I said I have a class until 10 so she said thats too late. Then when I got out she invited me to a drink near her, but I was grocery shopping and didn't expect to go out with her so couldn't. She said how about the next day. So that day she was sick. She suggested brunch by her place but then would let me know. Texted me the next day after scheduled time saying she was sick, but I don't think she was lying cause she really sold it. Then suggested I pick her up near work. at 6pm today. I said sure , then she texts me today we still on. Yes, Then she says she getting out of work at 3 so I can hang out near her and if 6 is too early then 7 would work.

    I said how about 730 since I told her I was at the beach and trains are running slow. She says oh I donno I have plans at 9. I told her we should probably reschedule, and she was like you don't wanna meet me.

    my issues and maybe I'm wrong.

    1. Everything is super easy for her, oh lalala I decided I'm free come by me, oh cancel but if you want brunch come by me, oh pick me up, or later come by me. I get that w chicks you have to hunt them down in the beginning but its cool when someone is willing to meet halfway. That I'm willing to over look no biggy

    2. So she cancelled twice but it seemed sortof legit. So I figure I got plans with her. Figured we'd get drinks. I realize blind dates you never know how long they gonna be but in my experience unless they day lunch thing on a friday night basically you go out with someone, not like oh I'll get a quick date in before I hang out with my friends.

    Also I'm coming from an hour + away so 2 hour trip for a girl for an hour -hour an half seems kind of weak. Yes we may not get along but still.

    I think her not originally telling me she had later plans was annoying. AM I overreacting. I get thats how chicks are and it only took a minute to find another girl to hang out with, but I kind of wanted to get to know this one.

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    Default Re: Am I in the wrong or overreacting>?

    Honestly from what I'm seeing, I don't think everything is "super easy" for her. I think she is actually trying her best to meet up with you in her seemingly busy life.

    But since both of you flaked multiple times on each other, her being attracted to you seems to be washed away. So she will keep flaking and eventually won't talk to you if you keep pushing for the date.

    What I'd suggest is, you back off a bit, brush off the date talk and go back to building connection. Consecutive flakes are annoying and she might want to re-evaluate whether she thinks you're still worth it. So show that you're worth the fuss. Don't be needy about a date and don't need to freeze out either. Just keep the fun talk some more until you feel like you can ask her out again.

    Good luck brah,
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    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Am I in the wrong or overreacting>?

    Thanks you're probably right. It just sucks that I'm the one who appears flaking. It would have been cooler if I would have known she had something scheduled later rather than going all the way to meet her for an hour only to be capped out in case we really hit it off. It's cool though i'll still talk to her


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