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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Asked her out and she said yes

    Ok it looks like I have a date , I asked out this girl I work with and she said yes . How do I not fuck this up , at what stage of the attraction process is one at if they already know someone , I have an insatiable ability to make this girl laugh

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    Default Re: Asked her out and she said yes

    She said yes, you got her laughing, and hopefully you have started some kino and got her comfortable with your touch (hugs, playful hits and flirty stuff like that). Now that you are on your date, I would assume there is some attraction. You need to work on escalation from here, both physical and "romantic" escalation. Smile, give her sly little looks, use push pull, all the basic stuff while you escalate.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Asked her out and she said yes

    I haven't been able to touch her yet because we are in work and in not sure it's appropriate , I do get a sense she's attracted to me .I dunno but I can just smell it off her that she likes me , She approaches me almost everyday for a chat and it's very easy to make her laugh , she loves when I tease her about stuff

    Here are my concerns about the date , when should I go for the kiss and at the end of the date how do I get her back to my place , this doesn't necessary have to happen so how should we part if it doesn't

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    Default Re: Asked her out and she said yes

    You shouldn't be thinking about any of those things really man, when you put pressure on the outcome you get nervous and mess things up. You would be focusing on a few things:

    1. Continue to make her laugh, which seems like it comes easy so don't put much thought on it

    2. Start initiating kino (for instance, make a joke and give her a playful little slap, start the date with a hug, etc tons of good ways to start this)

    3. Go for the kiss when you feel it is right, if the date goes well though go for it.
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    Default Re: Asked her out and she said yes

    Mate I see you are quite excited. But please Relax, Relax, Relax. If you go on a date with excitement you will act nervously and you will forget to tell your dhv stories, touch and be humorous. She will notice your nervousness and the whole situation will become awkward especially if you want to go for a kiss.

    Be relax and go on your date with "not a big deal" attitude. Then do whatever other guys have recommended you to do in the forum.

    prepare some material such as DHV stories, childhood memories, jokes etc so that you always have something to say. Try to bring up her emotions by asking about her siblings, nieces/nephews, etc.

    If you want to sell yourself do it in a smart and subtle way. For instance I was out on dinner with an HB10. (You don't believe that I was out with an HB10 huh? lol) . She was the kind of girl who is after a smart educated guy who is ambitious etc. So I said to her "yes I can cook x dish and y food blah blah.. I want to write a cook book soon.. it will be my first book in English.." after a few seconds she said "so you have books in other languges?!"... then I gave her a speech about all those languages that I speak and the books I have authored before.

    Again when I was driving that HB back to her home she was silent (she is a very quite girl), I said "have you ever thought of having your own business?"... she said "no, have you?"... then I gave her another speech about the business that I want to have in future and blah blah! (to demonstrate I am ambitious)

    You can easily amuse her, sell yourself and demonstrate a high value this way. this will of course work only if does she want a man with those values. good luck man


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