Re: How much Kino is optimum?!
Look into the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. He doesn't just talk about overt kino, but also covert. Like turning your back to her, but "accidently" brushing your arm against her breast.
I agree with the above. I want to throw in there that if you are not sure where to start you can always do a playful shove after she says something that requires one. It's innocent and playful and I think it's the absolute basic way to start kinoing her.
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