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    Default Intentional friend zone with HB10?

    Ok so.. HB10 I've hit on in the past.. Always shot down and she made it seem because who my ex was.. She is a server at my fav. martini lounge. Recently I've kino'd her some while she was at work and even got her to sit in my lap for a massage, which she loved. Then I flipped the script on her and told her I wasn't interested in her and would rather be friends also told her all my advances were more for a joke to see her smile...She has told me recently when I showed up in work clothes, that if she didn't know who I was she would 'do' me. She says she doesn't believe me about the friends thing (which she shouldn't.) Last night she sent me a message asking me out for drinks (damn phone was dead.)

    My question is... Should I push the friend zone for a little bit then use "getting out of the friend zone" game. Or should I use the opportunity that she now wants to hang out and escalate. To me it seems like she didn't like hearing I only wanted to be friends, yet when I would flirt and escalate (which is very hard to do on people who work at this bar) she would playfully turn me down.

    Input?

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    Default Re: Intentional friend zone with HB10?

    Using the friendzone thing is called a disqualifier. It opens her up to the idea of you hitting on her.

    To change this up find something about her or something she does that "makes you change your mind about her." Maybe she flirts or touches you a certain way. Or explains why she would be better than just a friend. Just find a way to get her to show that you should consider her more than just a friend. That's qualification.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Intentional friend zone with HB10?

    she seems to be giving some ioi's so you should definitely escalate,and use the "friends" thing as a way to keep her guessing.dont push for the friend zone thing or she'll think youre just playing her.


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