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    Default Had A Great Day...Now What?

    So got a call from a buddy yesterday to go out on his boat for a little while. When I met up with my friends (one is in a relationship the other is twice my age) I noticed there was a girl who I had never met before and she was cute and single. We both ended up having an awesome time just talking about school, her job (she works where I use to work at), and how much she wants to go camping sometime. I did as much kino as I could giving her high fives, toasting our drinks and hugging when she left. I eventually got her number so I was thinking of texting her in a bit saying something like "Hey there camping buddy ". I figured it would give be interesting and unique since it was her and I talking about it yesterday instead of the same old "It was nice meeting you" texts. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Had A Great Day...Now What?

    Tbh I think I think that opener text is just like the old dull ones. You have to be spontaneous. Hmm try this one, I used it a lot and always helps to start the conversation; " hey it's _______, save this number because it's the most important number you'll ever get ". Just my opinion but it works. But I forgot which MPUA I got that from.
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    Default Re: Had A Great Day...Now What?

    I would focus on your goal. Which is to set up another meet up date.

    Because you got to know each other so much already I think you should only text her with plans in mind. Texting aimlessly just to get to know her more may be redundant and actually make you go backwards beings that she may lose that spark you guys have from meeting someone new.

    I don't see an issue with your opener. Beings that she should already like you at this point and shouldn't be a need to put on a show. So long as you have plans in mind.

    Make sure the plans are something you would do with or without her and still have a good time. Invite her along if she wants. Then leave it at that.
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    Default Re: Had A Great Day...Now What?

    yeah I think that is a decent opening text. Kind of puts it in her head that you will be doing more things together in the future.

    You could even leave it open ended with a simple text that spark curiosity like "right on the floor rough style or.... how do you normally do it" then if she responds with something simple like "?" or "what" they you say "mentally planning a camping trip and didn't know if you were an air mattress type girl or just blankets on the floor of the tent"... or something like that.

    If she takes the innuendo the other way with something else, then you can use the "we just met... can you at least buy me dinner first" or "i'm not a piece of meat.. GEEZ" type response. Of course you want to make it a little better than that lol.

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    Default Re: Had A Great Day...Now What?

    Thanks for the replies fellas! I went for it and texted her "Hey there camping buddy, how goes it?" but I never got a response back so I'm just hanging back on this one...it is what it is haha!


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