Re: shyness and aproach! please help asap!!
If she tells you to get lost then there's something socially wrong with HER and not you. If you are just asking a question or making an observation, that is innocent. It's extremely extremely rare that a woman will respond as such. But holding that fear of reaction in your mind is giving you the excuse to not act. You have to wonder how many pleasant conversations you've missed because of an irrational fear.
Don't have goal in mind. When you get more experience you can start a plan of attack. Your main focus right now should be to just say "hi" to people and ask them general questions. Either about your current environment, situation, or something about them personally. People like to talk about themselves. Everyone has a story to tell. Or you could just end it at "hi" with a nice smile. That's it.
So get out of your head about where you can lead it and focus on just talking to people to just......talk to them. No agenda. It'll help you tons on learning to be talkative.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."