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    Default How to be funny on dates?

    Hi guys,

    As I said some time ago my sticking point is really closing dates successfully. I can get dates through online dating, day game or through meeting up women in different places (average 2 dates per week) but I always fail to make them feel the connection, spark or in general to make them interested. As an example, I was in a seminar last Thursday evening. An HB10 was there and many guys were kissing her ass up! She came up to me and gave me her number. I asked her out a couple of days later and she accepted excitedly. But two days after our date she texted me that she was not after a romantic relationship! On that date I made eye contacts, did Kino, said DHV stories, etc. But now what? she is probably giving blow job to a douche bag :-D

    Reading this forum and a couple of books I think my problem is that I cannot make the HBs laugh on dates. In general I am a silly guy who makes people around him laugh. But when I don't know the other person in a date very well, I don't know how to make her laugh. Part of the problem is that English is not my native language. Speaking English as a second language I have lost a big part of my character which is Humor. But any way it's not a good excuse and I need to come across a lot funnier when I am on a date. Can you please give me some tips as to how to come across as funny and how to make them laugh?

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    Default Re: How to be funny on dates?

    You're probably showing too much interest right away... especially with body language.

    If you constantly face her & lean in towards her, it can give the impression of neediness.

    Learn to mix up your body language by facing away a bit more. Lean out from her & make HER lean in.
    Express SOME interest, but keep her guessing.
    If a girl feels like you're not a challenge whatsoever, she'll lose interest.

    Don't worry about trying to be funny... just be FUN.
    The "funny" will come naturally when you're both having fun, because you'll be more relaxed.... everything will flow more easily.

    But too much positive body language & too much touching too soon, will definitely work against you in the early stages.


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    Default Re: How to be funny on dates?

    Thanks mate.

    I don't think I kino too much or too early. I also never lean towards them. In that sense I don't do anything wrong. I just feel they won't be attracted to me if they don't have fun or laugh.

    How can I be fun? Just having a good conversation does not sound to be fun to many girls. Is there anything I have to learn? I don't know what, maybe palm reading and magics?!


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