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    Sparta is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Recover from a screw up..

    I've been dating this girl (3 dates actually), F closed on the second. All seemed great, things really looking up. Earlier I went to the pub with friends and to my complete shock, she was right there with her friends. I think it's safe to say I sh*t myself with anxiety, literally attack on the spot. I walked past nudged her to say hi and that was it I walked and sat with my friends. No convo or nothing. They all left like 15mins later. How the F can I recover from this. Im now panicking to the max that i've ruined it!!!

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    monoposto is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Recover from a screw up..

    How did you ruin it? You came in said hi, were legitimately surprised and then hung out with your friends. Did you lie to her about where you were going or something/supposed to hang out with her instead?

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    Default Re: Recover from a screw up..

    Chill out man. Unless you have screwed up other things it shouldn't be a big issue. Just don't start acting all needy and insecure on her because you feel that you messed up. Act like that never happened and life goes on. The worst thing to do when you are feeling emotionally flustered over a particular woman is to message her right away. You may feel like you need to fix your mistake but anything you say isn't going to be coming from the correct mental space. Wait a day until you are over it and thinking clearly before contacting her. Remember, you've slept with her already so the power shift is in your favor unless you give it all back to her. At all costs don't be needy or apologetic next time you see her. On another note, you shouldn't be getting hung up on a girl that you've only gone out with three times. In the grand sceem of things, that's a very short time to know someone so you shouldn't let her be in control of your emotions like that. Good luck man!


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