So i number closed this HB a while back at a fast food joint, then after i tried to set a meet up she flaked on me saying that she would be out of town for 2-3 weeks. i told her it wasn't a big deal, then started a new topic, then ended it on a high note telling her i had to go to the gym.
After that, i froze her totally, because i rarely text a girl just to fluff talk. i usually try to set a meet up early on after number close, then kino, and DHV, and cocky/funny when we hang out, and then more DHV and cocky/funny via text, since i used her to that during the date.
so to make a long story short, after i froze her, about a month later she initiated contact back and we resumed the texting (to a very minimum on my part).
so after she texted me about two times in a row with just fluff talk, i had to make her understand something clear and sound. Like Mystery say " to win her, you gotta be willing to lose her." so that's how it went.
HB: blah blah blah (no meet up, just random talk)
Me: I feel like you are trying to turn me into a texting buddy, so i can keep you up until the next episode of Real Housewives of Orange County. I did not sign for that job.
HB: Ouch!!! Wow! i was just looking for conversation, but obviously you are a very busy person. So, why don't you spell it out for me in plain English what is that you want from this?
Me: You're just like my litte sister, adorable but kinda dorky *thanks to Style*, and i won't write a book about i want with you, as i'm the type of guy that shows it instead.
Hb: wow! you are very good at this game!!!
I stop texting at that point and opened a new topic about 2 days later, and here it is.
Me: Just drove pass something that reminded me of you...
HB: and do I dare ask what was that?
Me: lol i dont know if i can trust you with that information yet!!you have to answer this question correctly first.
HB: aw come on!! That's not fair!!!
Me: here it goes, guy meets girl at fast food, girl flirt and try to seduce guy. guy flirt back, take girl number. and finally girl kiss guy.
Does it happen a lot with you or it was just the luck of the draw?
HB: i did not kiss you!!!!!!!
Me: Lol i will give you a spanking from now on whenever you put more than two exclamation mark in a row!!! *notice i have three exclamation mark on here* Oh yea, my fault i remember now "I" kissed you
Hb: What and hypocrite! you just put three exclamation mark in a row! lol. and i wont lie i have a very terrible memory, i dont remember any kiss. I guess i need to be refreshed lol.
ME: you're a mess. lol. you gonna need more than "guesses" if you wanna taste these blackberry lips again honey.
HB: oh i do want a taste!! I can't believe i dont remember!! But i was having a bad week that week... i even asked my daugther if you kissed me lol.
Me: Anywayssss. I drove pass this tatoo/piercing shop the other day, which reminded me of your perciengs junky ass lol. Where you have all those piercings again?
HB: EH, there is worse things to be addicted to lol. i have ear, nose, spectrum, tongue lip, and some other places lol. 7:46 pm
Me: ahaha some other palces huh!?! alright i gotta go rob a convenient store real quick, talk to you later. 7:56pm
HB: So when are we going to get together again? 7:57pm
So here's my issue, since i tried to set up a date the firs time and she flaked on me, i don't want her to feel like everything has to be on her terms and also i don't want to set the tone as i was waiting around the corner for her green light and right away jump on it.
So how can i tell her i'm busy and we can meet but it has to be quick because i gotta go back on a project i'm working on. make her wait and burn of desire to hang out?
Any help and advice is appreciated.