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    Default Should I bash her for this?

    Caught a quick convo with an hb8 on pof and grabbed her number before she went to work. Shes a barista. I had gave her a lik joke about being smooth (when she wasnt) and end up calling her Just Jagger.

    So i throw her a text about a while after she might be.off: "what it do Just Jagger? melt any faces with your mad barista skills tonight?"

    No reply. And shes on the site like 2.5hrs later :/

    Any way to neg on her or something to get the convo going. I mean she did cough up her number after offering it...

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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    That's why I usually leave my number.

    Hit her up on POF:

    Hey. I feel bad about that raccoon taking your phone earlier But now that you have it back here's my number!

    I have no idea what dynamic you've set up with her to tell if this would work. But basically you need to leave your number with her and have her contact you. That's how I always do. No exaggeration. ALWAYS! And I actually got two numbers within a day by leaving them my number just the other day.
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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    That's why I usually leave my number.

    Hit her up on POF:

    Hey. I feel bad about that raccoon taking your phone earlier But now that you have it back here's my number!

    I have no idea what dynamic you've set up with her to tell if this would work. But basically you need to leave your number with her and have her contact you. That's how I always do. No exaggeration. ALWAYS! And I actually got two numbers within a day by leaving them my number just the other day.
    Well she GAVE me hers. And I texted her. So wouldnt she have mine now? Or are you saying pretend she doesnt and make it official?

    The convo went like this:

    Me -joke
    Her- laugh..my job is barista
    Me- oh barista, it says batista - joke - neg call her Mick Jagger
    Her- laugh..Just Jagger
    Me- Ok Just Jagger, I have to go etc. Can I contact you easier? Maybe through FB?
    Her- Probably wont find me on Fb, I have work. I can give you my number.
    Me- okay thats more convenient. ttyl. rock on! c\nn/
    Her- #### talk to you later

    That was all through PoF in an hour. Then when i texted her what I said I got no response and now she's online like 3 hrs later. Not sure how to approach it.

    Need an approach for tomorrow to get her talking. It's too late now to text her or log on and msg it's 2:30am here so it would seem awkward. I'll have to solve it tomorrow but I still cant think of anything.

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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Holy ish man. That was the whole convo? That was the fastest number close! Also, likely the most reckless. I wouldn't be surprised if she gave a fake number.

    The only time I go for a number close is when she begins to ask ME questions. If she asks me what I look for in a woman, I know I'm in.

    I'd rather have 1 or 2 solid numbers than 10 flaky numbers. Getting phone numbers is not a big deal in and of itself. What matters is what happens before the number close. Only if I feel she's earned my interest do I feel she's earned my number. That's when I leave it. I honestly don't see why everyone's obsessed with getting phone numbers. Could've sworn this was about getting laid lol.

    From this point just drop it for a few days and start an entire new thread with her. Do not even bring up the number thing. Act like it never happened.
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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Holy ish man. That was the whole convo? That was the fastest number close! Also, likely the most reckless. I wouldn't be surprised if she gave a fake number.

    The only time I go for a number close is when she begins to ask ME questions. If she asks me what I look for in a woman, I know I'm in.

    I'd rather have 1 or 2 solid numbers than 10 flaky numbers. Getting phone numbers is not a big deal in and of itself. What matters is what happens before the number close. Only if I feel she's earned my interest do I feel she's earned my number. That's when I leave it. I honestly don't see why everyone's obsessed with getting phone numbers. Could've sworn this was about getting laid lol.

    From this point just drop it for a few days and start an entire new thread with her. Do not even bring up the number thing. Act like it never happened.
    HEy man, gotta start somewhere. Starts with a number and little night time convo haha. Well I realllyy wasnt expecting the number too. I asked for her Fb just to have an easier way to contact her. And she gladly offered her number instead. I was thinking maybe I shouldn't give mine instead casually or take hers too willingly so I just was nonchalant said okay then suppose well talk later. And then she left it and that was that so I figured I'd be okay you know?

    It just went super naturally. Lol. I'm currently OUT of women that might want to get into my pants. So I'm realllyy trying to get as many solid numbers as possible and take this opportunity to step up my early stage text gaming and start setting up a fresh set of dates to see where things lead.

    Edit: I guess I should also note that that convo is abbreviated. There like one msg exchange missing and we weren't THAT brief in what we said, it was condensed to save space, but yes it did go down pretty casually and quick. Seemed really great at the time, thought I had nailed it lol. TGTBT.

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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Very true. Everyone does start somewhere.

    I'm coming out of a dry spell myself recently. It's important to always behave that you have an abundance of women and shouldn't rush things.

    Have you ever seen a woman's profile on a dating site? Crazy stuff. Literally 100 messages a day with all creepers saying vaguely the same thing. The idea of meeting a dangerous guy, or meeting someone who ends up not being who they claim to be, is a very real concern with women online. So we have to compensate for that. By playing a solid game and having a real convo with her before getting the phone number.

    The phone number doesn't really get you closer to meeting up with her. It can, but I'm sure from your experience (and also some of my experience) it does not guarantee a meet up. Behave as if she has to EARN your phone number and not like you pass your number out to every cute girl online. Once you get to a point where she knows you're not a creeper and starts to become interested in getting to know you then you can see about exchanging digits.
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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Duly noted. Thank you again man.

    She ended up texting me back during her work shift tonight (just now):

    "Hey sorry I just saw you text haha I'm at work till ten :/"

    I liked your idea from before so I figured I could text her in a few hours with this:

    "Listen it's okay if a raccoon nabbed your phone. Those fuckers do that to me all the time too. Hit me up after work and we can chat if I'm not still caught up in my current situation."

    ? Thoughts lol? One thing I dont like about it is that it subtley says its okay for her to not text me back sometimes. I did that a few girls back, said something like "oh well thats okay, this isnt about you..." When I had texted the girl that I was pissed that common courtesy didnt exist anymore and she asked what happened and apologized for not texing me back the night before. Ever since she barely texts back and never texts first. It's like I gave her the green light that it was okay not to respond sometimes and she took it very seriously lol.

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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Ooooh well that basically makes this post redundant lol. Good work man. But I still think you should play it a little safer next time. I doubt every woman would be that willing.

    Eh you have to be cool about a lot of things at first. You can get mad later after she cares about you walking away or not. Beforehand she will just roll her eyes and think of you as drama. So usually after sleeping with her you can start getting mad about stuff. Or sometimes if you are really clicking and know she wants to see where things go with you. Not before.
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    Default Re: Should I bash her for this?

    Lol sweet then ill just go with what I got there and hopefully she laughs. And I do usually play it much safer but I felt like she was about to shit test me so hard I wouldnt be able to handle it since it started so well. So I just exited and apparently it worked out


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