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    Default After coffee

    I have been seeing this HB6 for while now so I´m glad next week I have HB9.5 and HB9- to take on coffee.

    HB9.5
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    One year older than me, met her at club last week. She lives in another city than I but spends summers in here.

    At club we met like 15 minutes, I did some negs and DHV myself. I saw her later that night and #-closed her. I texted her and she´s out of town this week and suggested next week. I promised to get back to her next week (she seemed genuine about it).

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    Three years younger than me. Really outgoing, kind of rebel type.

    I have met with her and group of friends 3 times before and had great attraction between us two. Three months of knowing her I kept her frozen for 2-3 weeks and now texted to come for coffee and we planned time and date for next week.

    We have talked face to face like 5 minutes before, last time ended up with her credit card not being valid and I had to pay for drinks and she became pissed that I suspected her. Great change for f-close though but my phones batteries died that night lol.

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    OK there´s the situation. I´m thinking of going for the kiss with HB9- maybe if everything works, I dont know though if I should escalate more cause last time when she was drunk I think she said "okay we just take these shots and go fark somewhere so hard" We have not had one on one time together though and I dont know If there´s enough comfort for that.

    With HB9.5 I would like to take it fairly slowly and just plan day 3. I usually go for the kiss at first dates but I´m not sure if coffee counts as one :P She lives kind of far away but she said she had ex from my city so I thing maybe I could try for LTR too. . .

    How does coffee "dates" work? I have been in coffee shop with girl before but we always had something else like beach or bowling before that. Can they lead to anywhere or should I just plant the next meeting? Any thoughts about this situation?
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    Default Re: After coffee

    I don't take a girl to a coffee shop.

    Whatever activity it is I will make sure that alcohol is around. I prefer going to a half empty bar with inexpensive drinks.

    A few reasons why:

    1/ A couple of drinks and the girl will feel much more relaxed and open to talking about her personal life. Especially her sex life.

    2/ You can TALK without people listening in on your conversations who happen to be sitting at the tables nearby in a half empty bar.

    3/ Why spend extra money when you don't have to? Buy yourself some more nice clothes instead.

    4/ You will feel relaxed with a drink or two rather than hyper after having a coffee. Don't get drunk just maintain a nice easy buzz while you control where the conversation goes. Let her talk and try to listen. Just guide the conversation where you want it to go.

    5/ I find coffee shops to be really busy. Tables too close to each other.

    The last girl I went on a d1 with, the bill came out to $35.00 with the tip included. We were there for almost 3 hours.

    Another d2 with a different girl the bill with tip was $12.00 we were there for 1 hour and 15 minutes. She had a glass of red wine and I had a pint of beer.

    Both dates occurred within the last week.

    Always go for drinks after lunch, late afternoon well before dinner or after they have had dinner. I don't take them out for lunch or dinner until AFTER I have f-closed them. If you feel obligated to pay for the drinks then use my line, " I'll pay for the drinks since I feel bad for dork butts like you. You cover the tip. Deal?" They never say no and you save yourself the 20% tip.

    Whatever you do , don't take the girl to a fancy bar with $15-20 martinis trying to impress the girls unless you have already f-closed. Even then I still would not recommend it.

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    Default Re: After coffee

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    I don't take a girl to a coffee shop.

    Whatever activity it is I will make sure that alcohol is around. I prefer going to a half empty bar with inexpensive drinks.
    That´s what I was thinking. I asked her to come take one pint with me one saturday but she flaked and eventually went drinking that night (2 months ago). At this point I just want to have some talking with her to build comfort cause we had the attraction well build.

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    Always go for drinks after lunch, late afternoon well before dinner or after they have had dinner. I don't take them out for lunch or dinner until AFTER I have f-closed them.
    I usually take my dates so that I pay like 60% of all and she pays 40%. One time I went to play billiard with 2 girls and my friend and paid for it and didnt make big deal out of it so she was ashamed and wanted to pay my cars parking fee which I accepted Good f-close pull for me is just usual let´s go to my place to watch movie or do you wanna see my new asdasdasd etc.

    Maybe I can throw in idea of grabbing few drinks, right next to this coffee shop is pub and you can actually take drinks to coffee shop too. Better would be if we visit another place for that but anyways. I´m not sure how to pull off the club f-close though, any strategies for me, would be appreciated.
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