Exactly man, even on regular dates they know it. So she knows everything and by saying yes to my invitation, she's definitely giving me a chance to learn from last year's mistake, so she wants things to happen for sure.
I agree, things have to be defined right now. It's been like this between us for a long time, that's why we have to end it by deciding what we should do about it.
I know I am warned. I know it really sucks. I talked to her about this 3 weeks ago and she doesn't want a long distance relationship either, so there's noway we're going to have one. At least right now. After we meet, we never know what could happen, but personally I prefer living the moment with her and don't think about what will happen in the future in case we get intimate in those few nights.