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    Skald is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Help with Becoming a PUA

    "The victorius general makes many calcuations in the temple ere the battle is fought" -Sun Tzu, the Art of War

    Alright so I broke up with my ex a few months ago and I'm recently back in the game. I've always had trouble with girls and during the times that I was single I would begin to study the game but never truly committed to it, by actually going out and using it. But I'm done with that now and I want to fully commit myself to beocming a PUA. It has been too long that I've allowed my dating life to suffer.

    I have mostly book knowledge about MM and that's about it with some interesting hobbies, long boarding, rune reading and writing that could be usuful in a pick up situation Also for my financial situation I'm still in college but live with my parents to save money and I don't have a car so I'm pretty sure that limits my mastery of PUA

    So my question is where to start? Should I work on my inner game and the hobbies that I've started, my financial/pratical situation or just go out to bars and learn the hard way?
    Last edited by Skald; 07-17-2013 at 07:39 PM. Reason: Formatting

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    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: Need Help with Becoming a PUA

    You've done enough studying. It's time to take action. It's a circle. You go out to get better by learning from your mistakes. Then go home and reflect and study some more. Never get the idea "I have to be perfect before I go out." It'll never work. I've fallen for this trap myself.

    As for being at home and your finances...

    I was with my mother, got rid of my car cause of financial burden, and was on unemployment. Guess what? Still had girls willing to come over and/or pick me up to go back to their place. Turn your fallback to an advantage. Your advantage is ambition. As long as you have that then you don't need money or a car. Although they can help lol.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Skald is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help with Becoming a PUA

    It's kinda like what my brother said, he didn't have a car either and he still got laid alot. When I asked him what his secret was he said "I just tell girls I'm really green and care about the environment." So yeah turning something thats a downside to a positive isn't impossible. It's also a good measure of a girl, if she needs a guy with certain material posssesions then if you lose your job, market goes to crap etc. she'll leave you in a heartbeat.

    Thanks Batman, also what are some good books to read? I'm going to be buying the mystery method again, I have a few books on body language and nlp from when I first started.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Becoming a PUA

    Two of my personal favorites are The Attraction Code and Magic Bullets.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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