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Thread: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

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    Default I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    I love it when another guy comes and hits on one of the girls that I am with, because it is such huge opportunity to get a massive DHV. Do you guys feel the same way about this?
    I will now explain the strategy that I use when I go out with a group of girls.

    If I am going out with a group of girls I will normally have one girl, in the group who is a wingette. I use her to be a DHV for the rest of the girls who I am with because my wingette is comfortable holding hands, hugging dancing and all the other things that would demonstrate that I am liked and trusted by girls.
    When Im rolling with a group of girls, I will never hit on any of the girls that I am with. I dont want to risk them not feeling comfortable around me, because they are all such high DHVs, and I want to continue to be welcome to party with them. My main aim is just to make sure they are all having fun. This is generally easy because they are all a group of friends.

    Eventually we will all go to a dance floor, and it is here that I can dance with my wingette and also dance with all the other girls. Other women around us will notice this. They see I am dancing and having fun with many girls, and so they will feel safe about me.
    I then will use this to start introducing myself to other HBs in the area. But always not spending too much time talking to them and always going back to my friends. This is showing I am not desperate to pick up and I also really value my friends.

    Finally, I will then start asking women who I have just met that night to dance with me, and I will introduce them with my friends. My aim is to increase the size of my tribe, and because I am the leader, I my value goes up.

    My favourite thing is when another guy comes and hits on one of the girls. He will approach and make some crap pick. When he comes I dont need to do much, will just let him say his opener to the girl. Then I will just stop what ever I am doing and then take one look at the guy, and then stare at the girl, and then pull some face at her that communicates to the girl that this guy is a weirdo. I will leave her standing there for three seconds feeling more self conscious and more awkward as I stare at her, and then finally I will just reach out my hand to her and pull her across to me and put my arm around her, and then laugh. The guy will leave in about 2 seconds, and as soon as he does I will let the girl go. Its such a huge DHV doing this. It makes all the girls like you more.

    Now I have clearly shown to everyone that I am the leader of this tribe, and I have introduced some new HBs to the tribe, I will then select a target from among the new girls I have met that night. From here I will start off with dancing and grinding with the target, then move her to a location away from her friends to kiss her. Then I will take her to a place where I can talk normally with her and just introduce the kind of person I am.

    From this point on its just a matter of ticking away the 7 hours. But I have chosen this girl because she is really cool, so it is a total pleasure to spend seven hours in her company.

    May you find happiness in yourself and share it with each other

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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    On the flip side, what would you do if you were the guy approaching? That's more of a real life scenario to news like me that don't have an entourage of women lol.

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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Ahh this reminds me of those days. My circle has shrunken and I'm building it back up. But back when I did role with 4-10 women I'd do the exact same thing. Good job man.
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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Hah, gj man. I made the mistake of sleeping with/trying to sleep with the women in my social circle. Had some hits, some misses. Reading this post made me realize the mistake I made. Plus I could have built attraction with the ones in my social circle I wanted and perhaps gotten one or two of them two. Small towns suck, now I have a rep, everyone knows me and I have to move to a new town to do anything like this (everyone knows everyone and word gets around about me like crazy). I will surely remember this when I move after I graduate .

    Oh well, it can't be helped. Some of us are completely socially retarded.
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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Lmao do the girls I'm the circle have to be HB or just normal semi-attractive girls
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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lmao do the girls I'm the circle have to be HB or just normal semi-attractive girls

    Anything less than HB6 is a DLV. Should be HB7+ meaning a combination of HB7,8,9 for ideal results.

    This way other HB's view you as preselcted by HB's of their same caliber.

    The idea is that if you are hanging out with but not pursuing HB7+ - then you must be above them - and therefore HB7+ will be attracted to you. However, if you have an entourage of nHB4+ then you will only attract averga-looking girls - a slower route to solid game, but it can be done.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    Hah, gj man. I made the mistake of sleeping with/trying to sleep with the women in my social circle. Had some hits, some misses. Reading this post made me realize the mistake I made. Plus I could have built attraction with the ones in my social circle I wanted and perhaps gotten one or two of them two. Small towns suck, now I have a rep, everyone knows me and I have to move to a new town to do anything like this (everyone knows everyone and word gets around about me like crazy). I will surely remember this when I move after I graduate .

    Oh well, it can't be helped. Some of us are completely socially retarded.
    You could live in a small town, never hit on girls and then never get laid! Or live in a small town and hit on girls and give yourself a chance. So don't beat up on yourself. Yep get out of the small town. I think you are only going to be laying multiple HB's in a small town if you are a cult leader or something.

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    Default Re: I love it when other guys come and hit on the girls that I am with!

    Quote Originally Posted by Loudou View Post
    On the flip side, what would you do if you were the guy approaching? That's more of a real life scenario to news like me that don't have an entourage of women lol.
    Awesome question!!!
    First of all, this AFC failed because he was totally unable to understand the social dynamics of the situation he was entering in to when he approached the girl. He didnt treat her as part of a tribe. He just thought hot girl, talk, dance, kiss, fark

    Because he just went strait up to the girl and started talking to her it was impossible to view his action as anything other as an attempt to get her into bed from the very start. This girl is surrounded by friends and she cares what they think of her, so the bitch shield went strait up and he was never going to get past.

    If I was this guy this is what I would have done, and have done before to greater levels of success:

    First of all he needs social proof, to show that he is worth talking to. Even if he was at the club alone he can create the impression that the people around him know him.

    What I do, is simultaneously open sets all around me like crazy. I will go to one group of girls smile and say high, and then before they have time to be offended, I just eject out of there and onto another set where I use the same process. I just keep rotating around the sets around me, each time saying a little more and then ejecting out of there before they have time to get offended.

    This is such an awesome strategy for building social proof, because the sets dont know each other, they dont know what is the nature of your relationship with the other sets, so if it looks like you are good friends, even though you are strangers, then its as good as them being your good friends. All they will see is that you are talking to many beautiful women, and seem relaxed and a ease and unaffected by this. They may even see that other girls enjoy being around you.

    This is one way to build the basic social proof he needs to get accepted into this girls group.

    After he is accepted into the group, he has to show that he is an alpha, and that means he has to talk to everyone in the group and allow them to respect and trust him. Just focusing on the one girl will not do. You have to focus on everyone that is important to her.
    When the time comes to escalate he can isolate her, but he needs the trust and respect of the group before he can do this, otherwise there is a risk of a cock block somewhere down the line.

    The point is, that if you want to have good game you need to pay attention to the entire social circumstance the girl is in, and manipulate it to your advantage. It doest mater how far you have escalated you still need to keep paying attention to the social situation.

    When I pick up a chick, the first thing I do, is go and introduce myself formally to her friends, because I want her to know that I am a social guy and I respect her and care about her friends. I want the friends to help me, If they like me they will help me by approving of this girls choice to be with me.

    There is a real art to all of this social dynamics stuff. I cant write everything in this one post, but I just wanted to give a basic outline of one kind of stratergy this AFC could have used.

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