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    JakeT72 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Was looking for help on how to recover from this and get back in

    Quick back story, this is a huge crush of mine from 20 years ago in high school, things never worked out, shes now newly divorced and has really low self esteem. I'm married and not happy looking for other things.
    Here is our message log from last night, any help would be awesome
    I had a M next to mine and a H next to hers
    Wednesday 10:59pm

    Me-Mom's gone mild aye?

    her-Yep! I'm a handful!!

    Me--whoa
    sounds more exicting than watching tv

    Her-I have some great friend! A little drunk!

    Me-your a wee bit drunk? hmm

    her- Yep!

    Me-nice
    sounds like a good pary
    party*

    her-It is! I'm the only single one though!

    M-well thats not good

    H-I know but I did get hit on!

    M-hey hey hey

    H-He wanted to come home with me but I'm not that kinda girl!

    M-I see

    H-Seriously I have morals believe it or not

    M-nothing wrong with morals

    H-I'm a good girl

    M-I know

    H-Really I am
    Wish I wasn't sometimes not going to lie

    M-hmm
    here and I thought, you were thinking I was hitting on you...whew

    H-Nope! I know your happily married! Duh

    M-ya

    H-😀

    M-a square?

    H-It was a smile face!

    M-it came accross a square lol

    Lol

    was like now shes calling me a square

    H-If the show fits

    M-Ill let the show slide, since you been drinking

    H-What? I'm within self control!

    M-shoe
    your thinking what the heck is a shoe

    H-I wear shoes!

    M-and now I know you've been drinking slightly

    H-Funny

    M-this is the witty hot devoe, I liked talking to years ago
    no not carrie....You dummy

    H-Not hot! Just witty!

    M-come on we had this coversation yesterday, you look very much like you did when you were 17

    H-Not so much! I wish!

    M-hey I have good taste
    or I did

    H-What you mean did?

    M-did you know I only used to rent movies from that janky video store to flirt

    h-What??

    M-the place you worked of panganis
    I never watched any of the movies I rented, I went in to hit on you

    H-Oh King Video! I think you had a thing for Panganis!

    M-no, max would have shot me
    but I used to bug her, for the days you worked

    H-Your a liar!

    M-thats one thing I dont do

    H-Me either brutal honesty!

    M-see
    i just liked talking to you

    H-Your just missing your girls! I miss my babies!

    M-mostly
    when do yours come home

    H-Sunday I can't wait!

    M-I bet, a big empty house sucks

    H-It does!

    M-I gotta sleep with the TV on, I'm a huge baby

    H-I sleep with the radio on!

    M-ya? thats not a bad idea, but shhh....I'm mildly afraid of the dark

    H-I look better in the dark! Lol

    M-naw

    H-Seriously

    M-although I first thought I read you look better drunk

    H-No in the dark! Duh

    M-hmm.......I prefer lights

    H-Your married!

    M-see there you go again
    I had said I was afraid of the dark

    H-12:06am
    I was teasing! Good night!

    M-:9
    good night alyssa
    Chat Conversation End
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    Default Re: Was looking for help on how to recover from this and get back in

    You say you need to recovering.. but i wouldnt say youve blown it. Admittedly you havent played it aswell as you could have, but think you can still make something of this. What are your aims? just to sleep with her?

    She has told you she has morals, so i doubt sleeping with a married man is going to be seen as acceptable by her but you can try. You need to play on her spontaneous/rebellious side and comment about breaking the rules. Try and get over to her house or something, say that if she ever wanted company you may be free sometime to hang out.

    -Zeus
    Wise men don't need advice, Fools wont take it - Benjamin Franklin

    Stick a 50 note onto your forehead and talk to a stripper.. If you can get her to not think about the note, you are gold.

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    JakeT72 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Was looking for help on how to recover from this and get back in

    Zeus,
    She was something like a Ex from High School, her ex husband spent the past 2 years telling her how fat and ugly she was, as he left her for a 20 something skinny'er girl, now shes not fat or ugly.

    I have had thing for her for over 20 years, sort of the one that got away.

    I did get her to admit the other day she still has somethings I gave her 20 years ago in a box in her house.

    What would you suggest as a opening Instant message today or tomorrow?


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