So my situation is that I'm not seeing anyone explicitly. I was out of the game for about 5 months with a gf and now I'm just getting back in. The farthest I got was a k-close. But I have about 7 numbers in the last two weeks. Only the girl that I k-closed did I actually get out on a few dates already. The others I either snagged a number online or in person. About half and half.
My question is since I'm talking to all these girls periodically, mostly trying to f-close the one I k-closed, and get the others on a date + keep them laughing and attracted - I also gave out my number to two girls online yesterday that I think will probably text me sometime...
What happens if I just freeze out? And only respond to any of these prospects when they choose to contact me?
Will this hurt or help me? Can it go both ways depending on the girl and current feelings or can it only help me? or only hurt me?
I stopped working a few months back and started just doing my job remotely part time, then it trickled off. This was all planned mind you, but I left myself hanging and have been looking for a second job now to pick up the slack since I need some serious cash now that I realize I'm back in the game and taking out several girls potentially...
I have things to do basically, and I've found that I wasted the past couple weeks investing nearly ALL my time into getting dates, numbers, and just putting myself out on the market and upping my game.
All is well but it's time to get back on track and still hold onto my current dating life. I want to bed some girls since it's been a month or so but I have to get my sh1t straight too. School is coming up so that and work is going to swamp me. I'm just thinking it couldn't be harm to see where each of these prospects lie by just leaving them to dry and freezing out. If they don't ever try to get in touch is that a good sign that it's just a dud or should I be pursuing them still is what I'm asking. If this would be a major mistake and I need to constantly game them then I will. But I kind of wish I had a moment to breathe and really focus just for a week or two!