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    Default Re: DAYGAME Expert Needed

    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    Whats the reason for each of these?
    The reason that you don't schedule a FIRST DATE for a Friday or a Saturday is that's when MOST people socialize because of the Monday to friday work schedule. They are PRIME nights so you want to present an image that you are too busy to fit HER into your schedule. You are already committed to other plans. You don't need to give her the reason or what the other plans are. Just say you have plans.

    It shows social proof that on a typical weekend that you have many other things to do with so many other people. You consider them to be a priority over her. You don't look needy to be with her so this benefits you in many ways. She may even think that you are out with another girl and this will make her want you even more. Even if you are sitting at home on a Friday or a Saturday it's better for her to think you're not. It BENEFITS you. I won't even return texts from girls after 5pm on a Friday or a Saturday if I haven't f-closed them before.

    I have cancelled d1 with girls just for the hell of it. Think about when a girl cancels a d1 with you. What goes through your mind? You analyze EVERYTHING about yourself, what you may have said or done wrong. Girls think that way too. Use that to your advantage because girls certainly do.

    My favorite cancellation excuse is that we had a HUGE emergency at work and they NEEDED me because without me they can't figure out how to fix it. Yes. it's a lie and it works.

    HB9, HB10 will rarely have guys who cancel on them and guess what? They will wonder why you are doing it. It will drive them nuts. They will be thinking about you and why you did that.

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    Default Re: DAYGAME Expert Needed

    I'm that kinda guy that would rather be alone than with anything less than an HB8
    This is your issue I think. Probably when you number close a HB8 you get too excited and then you come across as smothering, creepy or needy.

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    Default Re: DAYGAME Expert Needed

    You know you might be right but I can't tell if I am. I mean it would make sense but I don't feel as though I am. This is what sucks about doing daygame alone, I have nobody to critique me so if I make a mistake I don't know I'm doing it and it takes forever to realize what I'm doing wrong.

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    Default Re: DAYGAME Expert Needed

    Quote Originally Posted by Trickster69 View Post
    Dave, that's a great idea about going and taking a pic at the place we were supposed to go. I will use this from now on.

    Odlaw you are partially correct. Yes I'm in need of technique because I'm finding myself in new situations all the time and instead of scrapping a girl for the sake of learning I want something safe to fall back on. I'm that kinda guy that would rather be alone than with anything less than an HB8. Therefore, I do a lot of work being out and about trying to find one.

    Now I still have questions from above that I'm still curious about.

    1. Meet a girl during the day, complete stranger. Number close, text for a couple days and set up a date. She can't meet up till 4 or more days later. Do I keep the fire burning by texting/call a bit ever other day?

    2. I'm downtown a lot and due to work some of my daygame interactions are 5 mins. I can feel that I'm not building enough comfort but still manage to set up a future drink/coffee and number close. Should I build comfort by calling before setting up a date?

    3. I would really like to hear about a Daygame experts experiences. Nothing too detailed just break down a typical approach all the way to 1st date. I just want something to reference to my own experiences.
    From my experiences calling is a better way than texting. For instance if I number close a girl I generally do this. When you go to exchange names and she says her name is mindy for example. Say "Maggie?" She will correct you and then say "Oh. You look more like a maggie so thats what I'm gonna call you." (Great way to nick name her right off the bat.) Then after the close later that night I'll text her something like "Hey, Maggie. What sort of trouble are you causing?" or whatever. Just calling her Maggie or whatever name you went with will be enough to let her know it is you. Text for a bit then just stop texting. The next day or the day after that call her. She now has your number so she will answer.
    As for your second question you should try and set up the D1 asap. If you feel you should call her and talk to her a few times before then do it. If you feel that enough comfort has been built then do it fight off. If you feel that it is too soon then she will most likely feel the same way.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.


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