My questions will be at the end but I feel I will get better answers if I gave some background on myself.
This is me;
pros- little or no approach anxiety and I speak clearly.handsome, great shape, dress well.
cons - my game feels tangled as I have so many guides, video and methods to follow I'm getting confused. I'm loosing half the girls after my 1st text message or half of them flake on our first date.
Every girl is different and it takes me a good two weeks to meet a HB9+ and I've lost 2 so far because of my text game.
My Training: Daygame by Jeremy Soul, Double your dating guide, Magic bullets and The ultimate guide to text and phone game and this forum. Now I'm not a guide junkie. I spend 1hr - 2hrs 3 days a week in field using daygame. Of course I also use it in my day to day life, like when I'm running errands.
Problem...I think: my text game. Ya that's what I'm thinking. So I'll number close most of the time. Half of the time I won't get a text response and it is indeed the real number. Although the following opener has worked many times I do believe it's the fault.
"Hey it's X, cool meeting you at X. Put my number in your phone, it's the most important one you'll ever get ".
At first it seemed too cocky, but then it started to work.....or was it merely tolerated? I'm thinking about dropping my text game until I get passed the first date, I'm usually perfectly fine at that point. I'm always left feeling that I did not build enough comfort. I'm thinking about just doing phone game in the beginning till I get to the first date. Thoughts?
Now here come more questions. I'm wondering if my texts are coming across as weird. See, I meet these girls for about 3-10 mins. The traits they get from me are; confident, attractive, interesting. So after the initial opener above I'll wait till the next day to respond or do a bit of texting that night. But the next day I bust out openers like this;
"a bucket full of puppies and and Ice cold beer. I could use one of these right now."
-Works all the time
"look up, can you see the cloud shaped like a laughing polar bear from where you are?"
-50/50 on this one
"I feel like a mad scientist today, do you feel like a super hero?"
-works but not received well.
And more like that. Because I'm not often humors during the initial meet that maybe my texts are giving the girls buyers remorse?
Case Scenario 1; I'll get a number on a Wed. and they wont be available to meet up till Monday or Tuesday. If I set up a date the next day I've now got 4-5 days before our first date. Am I supposed to text or phone them during that time and how often?
Case Scenario 2; The HB9 flaked on me today, an hour prior to use having a few drinks in a restaurant on the beach. My response which came right from The ultimate text and phone guide was;
"No Problem, I'll go with someone else"
-after I sent it I couldn't help but feel it was DLV.
Conclusion: I really need a wicked Daygame expert to help me out with my questions and give me standard game after getting the number. I really need to fall back on "safe" or "standard" game until I can build upon it. In short, please help me turn that phone number into a date.